Ixas_girl
Posted : 7/12/2007 1:30:44 PM
Millan#%92s hands-on work appeals to me for it#%92s sensitivity of touch. I#%92ve also been interested lately in reading what horse people have to say about handling leads, as they#%92re very tuned into “handling”: given the size and weight of a horse, getting it right matters. Some of Millan#%92s physical gestures seemed rough to me, until I tried them. As a yogi/meditator/dancer I feel at home handling my dog, often touching her makes more sense to me than talking to her.
For me, Millan#%92s been a great model of human composure, intention, and presence. I like how he advocates self-mastery. Here's a description of his physical/energy abilities that I enjoy reading:
http://www.gladwell.com/2006/2006_05_22_a_dog.html
I think the problem is that most of us don#%92t have Millan#%92s innate and developed talent. He#%92s a master at what he does, and he shows us what is possible. Dogs don#%92t respond to most of us like they do with him. When he points his finger at a dog, he does it with the expertise of a martial artist who redirects the appropriate amount of energy needed to get result. Millan#%92s an athlete. Trying to hit golf balls like Tiger Woods, or box like Sugar Ray would get lots of us in trouble, too. [

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So, I admire his talent, and am inspired to hone my physical craft. But, I also draw from many other handling/relationship models to create the wonderful relationship I have with my dog. I haven#%92t read Culture Clash yet, but I#%92ve learned a lot from reading books and articles by Patricia McConnell, Suzanne Clothier, Millan, Roger Hild, and others. More than reading stuff, however, the time I spend with my dog, and in the presence of experienced handlers, and beautifully functioning dogs, is most valuable.
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ORIGINAL: Angelique
Jean Donaldson is an evangelical leader of the Positive Only movement. Her self-rightous extremist preachings should be taken with a large lump of salt. She has no grasp of what Cesar is doing, yet devotes entire web pages to bashing him in ignorance. Very sad and unprofessional behavior, IMO.
Those are pretty strong words, but I feel unqualified to comment on them since I have not read what Donaldson has to say. Would you be willing to post those links? I#%92d be interested in seeing what her points of argument are, and read for myself the tone in which she delivers them. Thanks in advance! [

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I read this article a few monthe ago, which pits Millan against Dunbar. For my money, most of the strife was generated by the reporter!
http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2006/10/15/CMGPHL9D1N1.DTL
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Thanks, everyone, for speaking your minds, while remaining respectful of other posters#%92 opinions. [

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Being thoughtful about posting helps to make a space that invites a survey of opinions.
It#%92s so much easier for everyone to refrain from taking things personally when statements are delivered respectfully! [

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One of the things that draws me to Millan's point of view, is the integrity with which he presents himself. I cannot recall one article or quote by him in which he speaks negatively about his colleagues and peers, regardless of what they've had to say about him. That's attractive!
**Compelling arguments are build upon content, style and integrity. Everything else is just complaining.**