Kara
Posted : 6/27/2006 2:03:34 PM
In quite a few books I've read they stated that if the dog leans on you or places a paw on your foot it is a dominance gesture. So, for the first month and some I wouldn't let Gracie do this even though she tried to all the time. I noticed she was getting depressed I believe from the lack of utter closeness the leaning would give her. So, I tried letting her lean on me. I would wrap her up in a big hug or just rest my hands on her when she leaned on me and now she is MUCH happier. Surprise, surprise it did make a huge difference in the way she listened to me, and in my status. She listens to me MORE now. Focuses her attention on me more now when I request something of her. Gracie is very much motivated by love.
I'm beginning to think the whole strict dominance thing isn't for every dog, nor is it necessary for every dog. I do firmly believe in the NILF philosophy but I don't think dominance is found under every lampshade.
I don't know how this would apply to your dog, since you are trying to work through issues with him. I would think the whole head laying on your foot is just a need for closeness. I would strongly recommend NILF (Nothing In Life is Free), if you aren't already doing it and allowing him to cuddle up after he has 'earned' it by completing some command.