glenmar
Posted : 5/7/2006 6:34:09 AM
Angela, is there another spot where you can leave your little girl when you are gone? Maybe a bathroom FAR away from the barker? I'm almost betting she'd appreciate a QUIET place while you are gone the little that you are. Maybe put her bed in the bathroom, put a radio in there with her, and TELL her why you are doing this. TELL her that mom wants to give you a QUIET place where you won't be so bothered by the barking. Make it NICE for her, but make it HER place to escape the noise. It truely IS amazing what all they will understand when you TELL them the why's of what you are doing.
Have you tried sitting down with this boy and telling him WHERE you are going, how long you're going to be gone and TOLD him that he NEEDS to relax, take a little nap and be QUIET while you are gone? I know that sounds a bit silly, but it *might* help. Are you crating him at OTHER times as well? Like for good stuff like meals and treats? I honestly, crazy as this sounds, TELL my dogs, "mom needs to run into town/go to the store/ pick up some cat food and litter/ go see GRANDMA (and they KNOW that Grandma means they're gonna be crated longer)" I let them know before I leave if it's gonna be a short crate stay or a LONG one, but I let them know that I WILL be back. And then I ALWAYS tell them.....NAP TIME while mom's gone. Be good.
The things that I do, won't work for you because they are things that I do when I'm home......you can't give him a stern look and a "that will DO" when you aren't there, nor can you threaten him with the spray bottle. Mine start the morning yodel fest every morning about 7AM. With mine all it takes is a stern look and sometimes "that will DO", depending on how much they are feeding off one another.......ignoring the yodel fest doesn't work...they'll just keep on and HAVE for as long as 45 minutes because they feed off one another when that's going on. But a stern look stops them in their tracks. That doesn't help you tho.
A citronella bark collar *might* help, but I'm not sure it's a good idea with this little guys history. Honestly, I think valerin (and I know I spelled that wrong) would be a GREAT place to start. And Callie has a whole bunch of natural stuff that SHE uses, so you really ought to PM her and see what she would suggest. At this point I think I'd be willing to do WHATEVER it takes for him to learn that it's ok to be home alone in his crate. This is sounding more and more like SA to me, and I'd rather see you start with some homeopathic ideas than hitting the vet for major tranqs. He's housetrained right? But if you leave him loose he "forgets"? So your choices are a barking lunatic of a dog or pee/poop to clean up when you come home?
He may NOT have had this problem in his previous home.....this might be new because of the rehoming. He's old enough that the change might have been all it took to trigger these problems. Regardless of the WHY's you've got to find some way to break this cycle so that YOU aren't repeatedly stressed. I know that you absolutely want to do the right thing for the dog, but you also have to remember what stress does to your MS and take care of YOU too. You are no good to anyone if you have a major recurrance and can't get out of bed.
He said/she said, I maintain that it is NOT a good idea to promote ideas that you yourself would not be willing to use. Yep, I use the spray bottle sometimes, yep, I've even used the dreaded PRONG collar on Thor when nothing else worked. It was the prong or no walks. But, unlike the Monks I used it correctly, with NO collar corrections and let him learn that pulling made his neck uncomfortable. And yep, when two young pups decide to mix it up and they ignore a verbal correction, they just might get a glass of water tossed on their heads. But, the big difference is that I've raised these dogs and I know what works and what doesn't work with them. I'd never put a prong on my female, cuz I know enough about her temperment and personality that I know it would "break" her. With FEW exceptions, my dogs live to please me. But they are still dogs who do stuff that I can't understand because they think differently than I think.
IN THIS CASE, aversives will likely just make the problem worse. This is an older animal who was suddenly ripped from his family and rehomed. HE doesn't understand why he had to leave the place he'd spent the first several years of his life, HE doesn't understand that this new woman is his new MOM and that he's gotta listen to her and please HER now. He's afraid...he's beyond afraid, he's terrified every single time she leaves him. IN THIS CASE setting the dog up to fail isn't appropriate. I don't really think that it ever is....far better to set the dog up to SUCEED...by hiding and praising QUIET not punishing barking, and certainly NOT further terrorizing an already frightened dog.
So while the Monks *might* have a lot of experience, that doesn't mean the DOGS had a positive experience or that the dogs complied for any reason other than fear. If that's how you want to train your dogs, go for it. If you want to suggest their methods to others, go ahead, but I guess what I was trying to say was that it's NOT appropriate advice IN THIS CASE. And it doesn't help Angel or the lurkers to offer those ideas IN THIS CASE.