Hi all,
We continue to struggle through our adoption of a six year old male toy poodle. His previous owners worked full time and he was crated all day in their home "without any difficulties." Okay.
He has been in our home about 8 weeks. When I go out, I have him go into his crate. If left out of his crate without someone in the house, he becomes very nervous and has trouble controlling himself (peeing, etc.), so he absolutely needs to be in his crate when we are out. We have, through a series of events, found that he is barking in his crate the entire time we are gone. First a neighbor reported it to us, after that I started parking down the end of the street and sneaking up to the house, only to find him barking his brains out.
I have tried alot of different training methods, the go out and come back and reassure method, etc. I have put kongs stuffed with every imaginable delicious goop in his crate. Nothing has worked.
Some may think, well, what's the problem, he's not bothering anyone, let him bark. Well, he is bothering someone, and that's our 1.5 year old Misty. When ever I return from an outing, she is a total nervous wreck from the constant barking. She is an extremely calm, relaxed dog and this barking and turning her into a wreck.
I am at my wit's end and am really struggling through this adoption. It is not working in so many ways, I can barely count them. Since there are 4 of us here, me and DH and two teens, there are always people coming and going and criss crossing each other. Since the new guy needs to be in his crate, and wants out when ever someone comes in, it's a constant dog juggle. I'm not sure this is the ideal home for him, I think he'd do better in a home without so much coming and going and perhaps with someone who is home even more than I am (I'm only gone 2-4 hours a day!!!).
I don't know what to do.