Freedom
Posted : 1/24/2012 10:17:33 AM
O Henry, if you only knew how much you are loved, and do NOT need to be doing this!
This is going to take some time to train, and I don't know if you / your body can tolerate it.
NILIF will help, are you familiar with that line of training?
I'd also be interested in what the behavorist advised; because I am strong on positive reinforcement training. Some behavorists still follow the old alpha dog training, dominance rolls, etc, NONE OF WHICH IS GOOD FOR HENRY's issues.
Keep a baggy in the fridge with bits (small bits!) of hot dog, one of cheese, one of boiled chicken breast (no skin or bones). Henry seems to attack when you touch - him or another. Somewhere along the way, he learned that humans can not be trusted to touch nicely. He is protecting himself AND all around him (interesting that he even reacted to you petting the cat!) Keep a collar and short leash on Henry, even in the house.
Any time you do anything with any of the pets, you need to FIRST get a treat bag out. This in itself is going to take some while for YOU to remember. You are so used to reaching for Molly, for your cat. Toss a bite to Henry as you move in to pet Molly. Toss him another as you continue to pet her.
When you clean Molly's eyes, I think you will need to attach his leash to something for a time, so he can't reach you. Toss a treat on the floor to him.
Notice I do NOT have you handing a treat to him; I'm just not sure if Henry is ready for that. Keep it all neutral, away from you.
If you are sitting and want him in your lap, use NILIF to make sure he knows YOU are allowing him to join you. Have a baggie with treats with you. Are you on a recliner? A sofa? Toss a treat down between your legs. Keep him facing away.
I would encourage you to find a behavorist who uses positive reinforcement training methods and work with him / her. Most APDT (American Pet Dog Trainers) use this method. You can find one here:
http://www.apdt.com/petowners/ts/default.aspx
Where does Henry sleep? He should not be on your bed at night. He is going to have to work up to that privilege. Do you crate train? Do he use a crate willingly? These are some things a good behavorist will ask.
Putting on and removing sweaters / coats / jackets: It takes me almost an entire hot dog to get one on or off my Willy without me getting bit. Take out stock in Oscar Meyer hot dogs!
In My Opinion, It will take a good 6 months of diligent training on your part to get to a point where you 2 can live together in relative harmony; you will STILL be going through tons of hot dogs, cheese and chicken, but you will be able to let your guard down at that point.