Burl
Posted : 1/30/2011 8:02:07 PM
Sissy died of cancer 6 weeks back. She was not as engaged when Peanut would grab a rope toy - Red would more likely join in; they might tug together as long as I kept my hand in the mix, otherwise, Peanut would re-engage rough pulling and shaking w/ just me and Red would walk to a window and look out.
It is unusual that Peanut has no interest in even the old familiar toys she used to volunteer to bring out to play. Peanut would do this whether or not Sissy and Red were in the picture. I am not too convinced it is about Sissy, but maybe that there were three, of which Peanut was the 'jester', and now there are two.
(When Martha recently brought a few new toys home, Peanut showed
interest a little, but Red showed a lot more. and still is unusually
attached to playing w/ two of them.)
5 yrs ago, Red and Peanut shared outside time at the shelter where we go them. Red had just had a litter of 4 and was about a year old, while Peanut was a 3 mo pup. When they came to our house, we had Happy and Sissy, so the new ones were a pair, of which Red was the one Peanut followed closely. They are females of 6 and 5 yrs.
Addendum:
Perhaps Red is sensed to be top dog and the interest in toys means
Peanut should back off from toys. Red is showing more interest than
ever - she has actually brought two of the new ones outside where she
lays during the day.
But they are generally fairly equal. Peanut does not like to share what she sees as 'hers', like a spot on the couch or the bed when we sleep. In both cases, Red will give up her space for Peanut. In the case of the bed, at bedtime, both come in from peeing, and Peanut usually goes first to the couch in the LR, and Red up onyo the foot of the bed. After 20 min, Peanut comes to bed up closer to our torso, and within a half hour (sometimes not) Red junps down and goes to the couch.
The other day Red was on the sofa where Peanut likes to be when one of us is on the sofa. I came to the sofa and Peanut followed. Seeing Red in 'her' spot, she gives the eye, lowers her head and slowly walks away...Red waits a min. and jumps down to the floor. Then Peanut comes and takes up her spot.