ron2
Posted : 2/23/2008 6:35:51 PM
Chuffy
We are not "better" than them, we are not gentler or holier or what have you. We just have the advantage of information - BECAUSE we are here. We are not here because we are in some way "better" - we are "better" because we are here!!
Granted, we are not better than JQP because we are more educated or spend more time thinking about this. OTOH, those of us that are here have made the effort to be and involved with these discussions, which is more than much of what JQP is willing to do. As evidenced by the spouses of some here, as well as some JQP's at large, there's a few who will not change because they don't see the value. Or don't like the implication that they (the world of JQP's, in general) don't know it all. OT example. One of the gen. con. assistant supt.'s at work claimed he was once a master electrician. Bull droppings. But he's got to say it to elevate himself above us electricians. He's got to appear to know it all. And I keep my mouth shut and let him think that, which is political savvy on my part.
So, we may not be better than JQP but we are different. And hopefully, in respectful ways, we can impart information in a way that leaves them feeling good and maybe wanting to try something. And one thing we can do is educate on the prong. It may look draconian but it can be an effective tool, if less aversive methods haven't worked, so far.
On topic, I would imagine that different dogs have different levels of pain threshold. And a prong might give just some pressure to one dog and plenty o' pain to another dog. Then again, how much time are we talking about? If it is a dog that I own, I have 10 to 14 years. Or, in the case of Glenda and others here, perhaps all the time in the world doesn't mean as much as the correct effective communication to the dog. For some, that might be the prong, which is why I don't wholly condemn it, or any other corrective gear.