Deb
Posted : 3/3/2006 6:27:03 PM
Jen what you are saying makes perfect sense. I think the pitfall we are talking around is Entitlement. Roscoe is not entitled to whatever is in your hand just because you asked him to sit, and that is important to communicate. I think this is a tricky problem, and I have much more experience handling it with kids than dogs, so here is a human story:
In the NYC public schools, some teachers use a lot of candy and pizza and even on rare occasion money(!) to motivate their students. (Think Michelle Pfeiffer throwing candy bars in Dangerous Minds). This has a *bad* side effect when done thoughtlessly: snarly, cynical kids whose response to any question or request you have for them is "Where's my candy bar?"
This is an awful thing to watch, a difficult situation to negotiate, and I also think it is exactly what people fear when they talk about "bribing" dogs with "treats".
Both kids and dogs do need to understand that they are not *entitled* to a quid pro quo reward after each transaction, but that the goal is to work for as many rewards as possible in a world that reinforces on a variable schedule.
Avoiding and defusing entitlement in kids is difficult, nuanced work because kids can argue and cry and act out and decide to stop learning.
Avoiding and defusing entitlement in dogs is simpler. Hide the treat bag and vary the reward. I am sure Roscoe figured out that he is not entitled to every bit of food in your hand. I like the Life Reward v. Super High Value Reward (for Roscoe, food). It is important I think to understand what kind of rewards you are offering and vary them a lot.
I think that entitlement is such an unpleasant aspect of human behavior (especially for Horatio Alger-worshipping Americans) that we push that idea onto dogs when it's not really appropriate. Sure, misapplied treats create entitlement in dogs. But this problem is so easy to fix and doesn't destroy their character forever or anything.
The why bother witholding rewards question was aimed at a different scenario. I was imagining someone wanting a dog to do a behavior with no reward at all, which seems frankly asinine. Nothing works like that. If I open a door for a stranger I get a Thank You or a smile. Reward. If I pick up someone's wallet on the street I at least get their expression of gratitude that I didn't steal it. Reward. Today the chicken sandwich guy gave me change for a $20 when I gave him a $10, and he thanked me and that was a reward. But I also got the reward of knowing that I didn't have to figure out what to do with those two tainted $5 bills. Two rewards!
If I see the world in terms of the rewards I get for behaviors, why shouldn't my dog?