mrv
Posted : 1/3/2007 7:19:04 AM
I use a term in my profession to describe a some folks.... I call it marginal parenting. These folks love their kids, but they provide no rules to follow. There is food and shelter. The kids are clothed and there is some "fun" in their lives. These kids typically struggle with structured learning situations and they end up on my case load; some times they even have a disability. With the current estimates of dog ownership in the US, I would think there is plenty of "marginal ownership" out there. Once you step over the line to training, discussion boards, more interactive and participatory vet care, you are no longer JQP. One book that really illustrates that is
Marley and Me.
There is information out there. There are options for "more" with a note, a phone call or an off hand comment to someone who works in the field (or plays there like me). But for any number of reasons, the folks dont seek it out. They may be too over whelmed by other issues, they may not see a problem, they may have had bad experiences in the past (or heard a horror story).
As to bashing JQP, well yes I do lay many of the ills at their door. Even good intentioned folks make bad choices, so do the well informed.
There is outreach going on everywhere, however, folks have to want it and go find it.....I believe someone already said, you can lead a horse to water.........