tacran
Posted : 8/31/2016 5:37:31 PM
Wow! I have not checked the forum in ages, and I don't use the notifications feature, either. You all cross my mind often, and this morning while I put on my sneakers to walk Ruby, I suddenly thought to myself, "I wonder how all the iDoggers are -- I miss the old days when the forum was so active." Fast forward several hours later, and I was just taking a mental break here at my desk -- I decided to log onto the forum -- lo and behold, all of you are here, conversing the past couple days. It's like your conversation vibes came through to my mind to give me a subliminal message today. Fantastic!
It's wonderful to "see" and "hear" all of you and to catch up on what's been happening the past couple months. Callie, I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing; I remember you said she was faring okay after your Dad's death, but I know it had to be hard for her living independently and for you feeling unable to help much from afar. And to be the sole person having to handle all their affairs -- I understand how stressful that can be, and I hope for your sake that everything can be wrapped up as soon as possible. I'm also sorry to hear that you've had more health setbacks this year -- the added stress of your role as executor surely doesn't help. Sending lots of strong, healing vibes your way!
Sounds like everyone's dogs are doing well, despite some showing signs of age and slowing down. The important thing is they're all getting all the TLC possible in the wonderful homes they have with all of you. As for Ruby, she is the same ball of energy when she's "on," and the same cuddly jello blob when she's "off." We still struggle with reactivity issues while waking her, but we manage with walking as often as we can where we don't run into other dogs.
Our summer has been rather stressful -- you may remember that my MIL has dementia and last summer we were focused on her move to assisted living, and her continued refusal to get up or stay engaged in any way. At the start of July, she called DH in complete delirium, unable to get up on her own, hallucinating, etc. We thought she had a UTI, which caused similar symptoms a few months before, but after an ER visit, nothing definitive was found. The hospital kept her 5 days, and all signs pointed to the end being near (kidneys not working well, breathing difficult, etc.). Both SILs are 1500 miles away, and DH is the sole legal rep, so he moved forward with necessary arrangements, including hospice care, etc. But, within a week she rallied, and although she's at a new low (i.e., sleeping 24/7 except for meals and bathing), she's been relatively stable. SILs have visited, including a month stay for one of them, and a couple grandchildren have been able to come from out-of-state. MIL doesn't seem to react much whether she has visitors or not, but she's also not expressing fear, agitation, or pain, so that's good. DH, on the other hand, has aged considerably, and I worry about his own physical and mental health. He's worn out. The only break he's had this summer was a 3 day fishing trip in early June. The poor guy needs to go to a warm, deserted island for a month to just chill out and relax. His job is even more stressful, so he's at his wit's end.
On a lighter note, I wish we could gather together somewhere and share in Glenda's culinary offerings, as well as Kate's garden surplus, and Doug's honey crisp apples. It would be fun to catch up in person, but reading your posts from the past few days has been a nice visit, too!