glenmar
Posted : 7/31/2008 8:29:19 AM
I can totally understand your frustration as a trainer. But, I can also understand the owner who does think they know what they are doing. When Thor and Sheba were pups there were NO trainers other than a yank and crank guy where we lived, and he REQUIRED a choker.
And, I remember all the good suggestions you gave me and I too said "but". Thor was too big and too strong to "be a tree" by that point. There were circumstances in my case, and I' m sure many owners have stuff happen that interfers with training. In my case, Thor moved with the family and was without me for a month, and no one tried to walk him. By the time I got home again, the GL was useless because he fought it so badly, there wasn't an easy walk at the time and the trainers THERE were all the PetsMart kind of trainers who I'd been warned against. Being literally dragged down the road on my rump was NOT condusive to continueing to work with him and it was find a tool that would help me to train him, or never take him for a walk again. My glass shoulders couldn't take that kind of abuse.
Looking back, I never really leashed trained my other dogs. They always had big yards to play in and they didn't go for walks. Yeah, my bad. But, I didn't see any reason to walk them. Rusty was excellent on lead, but I think that was ONLY because of our bond and the fact that he didn't want to hurt me by pulling. I didn't train him. He trained himself. As an AVERAGE OWNER I didn't know all about socialization, I didn't know about the things I know now, and for heavens sakes, how hard can a cocker pull? Well, I found out differently with the girls.
Back to Thor.....I used a prong. That's not a deep dark secret, even though it isn't something I'm proud of. But, I had a trainer show me how, I used it as a TOOL and we moved on. Thor now is the BEST leash walker I've got, but I don't think it was the prong so much as it was ME being in charge finally, and much more so, the long line work that we did later. And, my experience with Thor taught me how to be the leader with a dog on leash without needing to be a bully. Because of Thor, I learned to do it better and do it sooner....way sooner. I only actually used the prong for a matter of 2-3 weeks. Thor just didn't give it up as jewelry for months.
IF people really understood, I think many would get their pups to a trainer long before a problem crouped up. But, just like nutrition, most people don't fully "get it" and they stumble along the way, get sticker shock over the price and figure that they can do it themselves. And by the time they figure out that they can't, well, that's where you come in.
Breeders, rescues and shelters need to put training requirements right in the contract. Many of them don't, yet this should be as critical as a spay/nueter clause in every adoption agreement. Bottom line, if you educate the public, they are more willing to part with the almightly dollar to insure a long, loving relationship with the new family member.