Kim_MacMillan
Posted : 1/9/2008 11:37:09 AM
I agree and disagree with you 4IC. :-)
I do not agree that the aggression is her fault, nor do I think it has anything necessarily to do with "strong leadership, blah blah blah". You may not agree with it, but not all behaviour problems (especially aggression!) have anything to do with the human. There are some things that are certainly caused by humans, there are some things not caused by but exacerbated by humans, and then there are those things that simply are as they are, regardless of human. Because aggression is such a complex thing, I too wouldn't care to hear about leadership blah blah blah (I'm not poking fun, just using your words), but rather what I can do in my particular situation, which I think has nothing at all to do with leadership. Saying "be a leader!" really doesn't tell anybody about how they should live with a dog, what exact steps they need to take to make this issue better, and a lot of the contemporary leadership principles would have no effect on dog-dog aggression at all.
FourIsCompany
you need to make 100% sure to keep your aggressive dog contained and stop blaming your sister for flipping out and her dog for being a sissy and put the blame where it belongs.
I wholeheartedly agree we need to stop blaming others, though. If one chooses to live their life with a problem dog, there are a heck of a lot of responsibilities that come along with that. It's not an easy life to live with a dog like that, and a lot of changes often have to be made, but that's a choice you have to make, and if you make it, it's your responsibility to deal with it and ensure the safety of everybody - other dogs, other people, yourself (in case you ever got bitten in a fight, or redirected upon), and most of all your own dog. You might not be to blame for the aggression, but you are to blame if something goes wrong and somebody gets hurt. Thankfully nobody has yet, but there don't let that desensitize you to her aggression.
In an ideal world you would be able to teach your sister how to properly act around aggressive dogs, and I would make an attempt to try (have you yet? Actually given her something to read about why shrieking can make aggression worse? Would she be willing to read it?) Unfortunately our world is not ideal, and perhaps she will never learn how to act normally in the way of an aggressive dog. And like it or not, that's her perogative - some people (just like dogs!) are going to react negatively in times of stress. Reaction and anxiety happen in people just as they do in dogs.
Because of this, you have to make it your perogative to make sure 100% that this cannot happen. Before anything, management comes first - safety. If it was me, I would set up a series of baby gates, along with conditioning your dog to a muzzle. I would not let your sister have much interaction with this dog, because if anything ever happened, you know how she would react and its not what this dog needs. I would teach your dog that when particular doors are open, the dog should do a behaviour other than running out the door - going to lay/sit on a mat for example until released, so that as soon as you enter a room, either you cue the "Place" cue or the opening door itself becomes a cue (probably easier to cue it yourself). I would implement a lock system on your door (or the door where the dog is) to prevent your sister even the opportunity to take control of this dog when you aren't around, and to prevent anyone from just barging into the room (even though the baby gate should be always up - in this case a baby gate with a door built in would be best).
You have to face the issue that your sister may always be an obstacle. Think of her as yet another environmental hazard for your dog. It's unfortunate, but that's how you have to look at things when it comes to the safety and security of your dog.
Really, because you don't have much experience, I wouldn't work on too much behaviour mod as you might end up making the problem worse, or doing something wrong. At this point I would focus on keeping everyone safe.
But I am curious....Can the dogs be around each other at all? What if they were both leashed, can you keep the attention of your dog at all or is it fixated on her dog? What if you had them outdoors together on leashes - can you walk them together at all? Or is it a "see must attack" philosophy regardless of where you are? If you had both dogs on leash, at what distance outside would you be able to stand next to each other and have your dog still pay attention to you? Do you know?