dyan
Posted : 8/23/2007 7:52:11 PM
I have been a member here for quite a while. And honestly, this is not the norm. I haven't seen a lot of rude behavior or bluntness that should seriously hurt someone's feeling? Yeah it does happen here and there but it is far from the NORM and such a non issue IMO.
I agree that this is not the norm...that it happens here or there...but don't you think it should not happen at all??? I do!
This is an adult message forum about something we all love...dogs. There is no reason in the world to hurt someones feelings in discussing them. Of course we're not going to have the same ideas on what to feed them..how to train them.. or even where to get them...but why in the world would we have to hurt any persons feeling while giving your opinion?
Personally,,, I don't think I like the word blunt. I think its kind of used as an excuse..its an ugly word.
In a nice discussion...why can't we talk about giving an honest opinion... not a blunt or abrupt opinion?
If I were having a discussion in person...I would never try to be abrupt, I would always be nice...whether I agreed with the person or not.
While we would all like the whole world to agree with us on what we say... I don't think any of us would feel hurt that people do not agree all of the time. However... if people disagree in a way that is rude or cutting...the we get hurt. THAT is what I think we all need to be careful of.