B L Stroud
Posted : 7/30/2006 10:53:18 AM
You did the upright and honest thing in giving the dog back. ok. They've had their opportunity to do the right thing(s) for the dog. They failed . On purpose, apparently. The dog deserves better, far better. Seems they won't care if the dog just disappears, as in finds a better home....I wish people like this had to purchase a license after taking a pet parent test....they don't deserve pets at all. jmo.
I understand your moral qualms over it. I once wanted an exboyfriend to do the right thing by a stray dog he brought to me off the streets. He wouldn't take her home. She was only a tool that connected him to me. I had insisted he provide her med. and vet needs, since it was his idea that "I" keep her. He had no yard, lived in a loft apt. in the city, would not walk her as needed, but rather when he felt like it and then mostly to get the attention of "what a pretty dog" reaction, and claimed he was not making a lot of money to buy the dog food (well he never lost any weight and seemed to gain it, so he was def getting groceries!) This was after we broke up as b/f-g/f but I tried to remain "friends" with him (big mistake I would recommend NOT doing ever)
One day he came to my home, in some kind of mental upset and rage, mumbling stuff and all I could hear "and get my dog" . Scared the dog. she came into the kitchen and hid behind me and gave me a look I will never forget. (you see he had once hit her in the head and dragged her across the yard angry that she had chewed a leash-yeah one of the reasons I booted him- she forgave him but I could not -that and other idiotic things he did) In that moment I knew he would have to get that dog over my dead body. And I told him he could not take her. She would never had her needs supplied in any form should she stay with him. how could I let her go knowing that she would be abused?
She is still with me today, an angel in Husky fur. Lights up my life.
Am I suggesting you keep the dog? Not necessarily. Just want you to know that you are not alone in your moral dilemna. In this case, I would choose what is right for the dog.