calliecritturs
Posted : 9/6/2009 10:48:24 PM
I've never taken a dog that didn't need us/me. I've taken on some pretty big challenges ... mostly deliberately. I've taken on the ones "who came back" to straighten things out and get them to the *right* home. I tend not to think of myself as a 'behaviorist' -- I tend, rather, to simply climb inside their head and think like the dog. We've unravelled some dogs who badly needed to BE understood. It's not something I want to do ALL the time, because my energy focus is better on health issues because of my own physical problems -- but I do love to take on a damaged dog and help them be all they can be.
The only one who was ever a real surprise was ... believe it or not ... BILLY. He had been severely abused in foster care (this woman had EIGHTEEN foster children all with emotional handicaps and a couple of them had apparently been horrifically cruel to him). It was a hidden 'flaw' -- where he only triggered on little 2-6 year old blonde girls or in HUGE overwhelming "running, screaming, excitable" kid situations when he was cornered.
He was one of our biggest challenges because the "hurt" went so deep (and he does love children). In that particular case I'm just going to chalk it up to an incredibly STUPID rescue group -- they almost didn't give him to us **because** we don't have children!!! This group was completely unaware of what had happened in "secret" at this foster home. We SAW him with a handicapped boy and he was MARVELOUS. It wasn't until about 2 weeks later when we saw him react when approached by a family with two little blonde pre-school aged girls that we began to have a clue of this hidden reactivity/terror.
I'm just SO GLAD it was David and I who got him. Because had it been any other family and he had turned on some sweet cute little blond squealy girl -- he would have been put to sleep in a heartbeat.
Some rescues just don't monitor their own foster care well enough.