mrstjohnson
Posted : 3/5/2009 9:38:52 PM
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She said that it was in part because we don't have other kids. She was very concerned that the baby is due in less than 3 weeks, & we have essentially nothing for a baby. When she visited, I tried to assure her that we could, & would have absolutely everything that we would need for the baby before the birth, but apparently she wasn't sure that we could pull it off. She ended up picking a family who already has an 18 month old. She said that she felt that they were better prepared to deal with another baby. I guess that I should be happy that we made it to the final two couples, but I am disappointed. Our time will come though!
I am probably biased because I "know" you, but to me it seems unfair to give the couple a baby that already has one. And personally, I would think you guys would be better able to handle an infant without an 18 month old running around. I cannot even imagine having an infant in conjunction with Riley. Thinking about it makes my head want to explode. Then again, at one point my parents had three infants (foster kids) had just adopted a newborn (my sister), a 2 year old and a 4 year old all at the same time...gives me the chills just thinking about it.
The part about not having anything, is kind of BS if you ask me. So what are you supposed to do, buy all this stuff just in case someone might select you. Heck we didn't have Riley's crib put together completely until she was 5 weeks old. Most of the "stuff" you can't use right away anyway. It's not like you can put an infant in a highchair and feed them. All a baby needs immediately is love and I am pretty sure you and your DH would supply plenty of that!!!
You are right though, at least you made it to the final two. That's important.