Why is it so hard to have a little peace and quiet? *vent*

 Lol! I wonder if that would work on my file.. Not technically married but we will be in a couple years. But I think my library goes by birthdates or something like that.

Blech!  Sounds like a life of pure hell to me, but I treasure alone time (not including dogs) more than life itself.  

As somone who is much older, I can't even imagine tolerating the situation, but I realize you're in a tough spot.  A house full of drunken, some belligerent obviously, males is not where you need to be.  If I were you, I'd start finding some friends and building some bridges so that you can ultimately be in your own place.  I'm not suggesting you leave your BF, but if he doesn't realize that this is a big deal to you, I would move out, not necessarily ending the relationship. 

 I hope you find some peace!

 Well the bedroom is being finished as I type this so I'll be able to get my privacy. I would move out but I can't afford the rent around here even without the dog.  He knows it's important to me but he doesn't realize how important so I make due with what I can. I'm just glad to be able to sleep in my own bedroom again.. *sigh*