Bonita of Bwana
Posted : 9/8/2008 8:41:56 PM
fuzzy_dogs_mom
ETA: I really liked what Joe Biden had to say on the abortion issue. He said "I'm a Catholic. My church opposes abortion and I follow my churches teaching on that issue. However, I do not feel like it's appropriate for me to impose my religious beliefs on other people." That's all I'd ask of an elected official. Live your own life as you see fit and let everyone else live theirs.
Joyce I agree 1000%
Sadly What does drive me nuts and call me whatever is the Hollywoodish view of the Pregnant 17 year old daughter.
I HATE all of the Starlets, Celebrities etc who are all about "Gee we are having a BABY" yipppiee yeahhh.... And we are going to wait to get married till I can fit in the right dress or the schedules opens up or ???? Darn it all a Baby is not an accessory, It is not an Accident, falling down and breaking your toe... that is an accident. Ouch go to the ER get a cast and stay off the foot for a while.... Bringing a LIFE into the world is NOT an accident and I am one of the folks for whom Birth Control NEVER worked. 3 different types and doses taken faithfully and 3 pregnancies. One lost , two adored. But Darn it I stepped up married the FATHER not FatherS Tried like Heck to make it work. So it did not. At least my daughters are never had to ask what My Grandchildren have asked " Do I have a Real Father? Does He even KNow about me? Did He ever care?" I would have HATED her marrying either Bum. But At least the kids would have had a name on the Birth Certificate, They would not be one of a rapidly growing number of kids who haven't a clue what half of their DNA is the result of.... The Bradgalinas who claim they won't marry till Every One can Marry Shoot and Give me a Break! Do you honestly think the world will adjust so you won't keep popping out kids with out a certificate?
When Britty's Baby sister who Worked for DISNEY had her baby and got press coverage for moving home, keeping the baby for mom to raise etc I felt ill..... Walt must be spinning.
I do not want folks to be in unhealthy marriages. I do not want them to tolerate each other when it is apparent they were not truly suited... I want them to keep their Knees together and stop popping out kids wh o one way or another will pay for the selfish desire to have kids. I adore my youngest and when she claimed she was "woman enough to keep the baby since she had been woman enough to make it" I wanted to beat the snot out of her. The 67 year old Hubs and Myself 51 , are raising this 2 child family while she deals with her "issues" and gets long naps on her days off. We Love the kids. and I am seriously looking into what Chastity belts will look like in a couple of years. As long as we , as a Nation say hey no problem it wasn't actually your fault ....... then we as a Nation will be raising , paying for and sadly justifying to a kid why they do NOT have that father for a sports or school function. Sorry I respect the fact as a Mom she wants to support her oldest child and first Grandchild I do not respect the fact that she will possibly be the second in command of our country and her values are so screwed up. But then it may be easier to be a kid in a family with that much money, and publicity.... after all it won't be born on Medicaid and will not have to qualify for food stamps to be fed... something most Republican Positions want decreased dramatically....
Sigh Bonita of Bwana