calliecritturs
Posted : 6/23/2008 9:10:46 PM
To me each dog is a complete individual. I have completely different, unique relationships with every dog I've had the pleasure to know and love.
Prissy -- my first 'heart' dog -- SHE was my best friend forever. NO one understood me like she did, there will never be a better 'friend' -- not ever. We weren't owner & dog. We were more like sisters, truly.
Mike tha Dog? He was the Old Man. The ultimate alpha - he used to even tell David the nights it was time to take out the trash! (he'd go sit in front of the cupboard with the trashbags in it).
Foxy the Mostlie Sheltie? He needed me. He adored me. His faith in me was unshakeable and boundless. I had to be 'better' to live up to his estimation of me.
Muffin the Intrepid. I respected him. I helped him. I did the 'mom thing' (I was the one who helped the sore skin, the hurts, the surgeries, etc.). Then came the day he lost his ears and suddenly I WAS THERE! I was the key. I taught him WORDS (signs -- the dog knew like 70 ASL signs) and unlocked the spoken world to him AFTER he lost his hearing. Sooooo he could talk to his cancer kids and pet therapy kids. I was ... basically ... words and a car. I will forever be in awe of loving and serving that unbelievable dog. He was the purest essence of love to sick children there could ever be -- and I got to live with him, go with him and see it all develop.
Pollyanna -- I never got a chance -- 3months was just too short.
Ms. Socks -- I was "a friend". Her life that went before us was sad and she was apparently ultra bonded to that woman. She was a survivor ... she was "grace under fire" ... she 'waited' here but learned much and accomplished much more than SHE ever thot she could. David was the "fun guy". I was "a friend" and the "food lady".
Billy -- yeah, he IS my best friend. My buddy. A huge huge part of my heart and my sanity. He needs me. I need him. Pure love. The "best part of my day".
Kee -- that's still a work in progress. I've been promoted tho -- I'm not merely "the food lady" any more -- I'm "the mom" -- I give good cuddles and she's GLAD to see me when i get home (that's new and a big huge deal to her). Most humans are NOT to be trusted you know ... they leave, they hurt you and they generally just aren't wonderful. But ... David and I have been 'promoted' in recent months to "Hi GLAD to see ya ... if it's not too much trouble ... can I have a scratch ... yeah ... *there* ... this **NICE**?"
I don't expect the same of each dog -- it sWAY different to get a dog when they are small and watch them grow and mature and teach them everythign, and to rescue a dog along the way ... and different in a big way to take a senior animal who is either just grateful for a home or who has had it very very rough and needs to learn to trust again.
I can't lump that all together. Each and every one is sooo unique. It's always an awesome ride ... but to a new destination every single time.