brookcove
Posted : 5/27/2008 10:47:46 AM
I had a friend who had to deal with chronic pain. He went to one of those pain clinics and it made all the difference to him the last year he was alive. It was unbelievable - this was a guy who could barely stumble around the year before, and the year he passed away, he upgraded a huge barn, put in two big breeding stock sorting systems, reworked all his pasture fencing, and oh, yeah, built a house and a large deck.
I myself found that pain management depends on the prioities of the doctor you are talking to. Doctors who are intensely involved in saving your life, limbs, or managing a chronic illness, spend less brain power on quality of life issues. Which is fine - even doctors have limited cerebral power to dedicate in any one direction. You pay an orthopedist for their ability to (one hopes), keep your joints and bones functional. I am thankful for the trauma specialists who saved my leg after my auto wreck, even though I spent a lot of time the next week complaining about their lack of interest in my other problems.
I'm so grateful now that I was in their brilliant though slightly callous care, and the discomfort is a distant memory, and I have 100% range of motion back to date. But it took me going to another doctor to get a pain management plan that worked for me, and yet another therapist to realize I had vestibular damage that was preventing me from moving forward with my physical therapy, and yet another specialist to identify some soft tissue damage and treat that, almost a year later, and finally a podiatrist to find another injury and treat that, almost two years later.
So I'm very much a believer in specialized medicine. I hope your friends get the answers they need!