Truley
Posted : 5/6/2008 10:34:50 AM
Marklf
Truley,
"Now, back to our scheduled debate on why I wrong to be an elitist, thank you!"
The problem with being an "elitist" is that it is not an effective approach when trying to convince others to join in ones attempt achieve a particular goal! For example (and I am not directing this to anyone in particular on this thread so please do not take anything I state as "personal";), if a persons goal is to lower the number of dogs that end up in shelters but they come across as "elitist" when they present their views then the majority of people that hear their views will be turned off by their "elitist" attitude. This does nothing to help reach the goal of less dogs ending up in a shelter. In fact it could hurt their cause because their "elitist" attitude could cause people to shy away from going to a shelter because they do not want to be exposed to more "elitist" views from people at those shelters.
Mark
I was labeled an Elitist for refusing to condone or support the breeding an unproven pet dog. It was just my view, the OP asked a question, I gave my answer. I did not call her names, or call her a bad person, but gave my view non the less. It was up to her, and her alone, on how to react, to be honest she never said a word to me, someone else came along, someone with deep feelings of regret, and gave me a label. Someone who I might add, fosters dogs, that someone in that line of rescue, would have that attitude, broke my heart, and I am sure it floored a few others here as well.
I don't care about the label, I do care about over breeding. I don't walk up to people and demand to see the testing on their dogs, I don't yell at people who breed their pet to someone else's pet because they can and they think the puppies would make great pets, I offer advice, give a few suggestions or opinions, if asked or involved in a conversation about it. I don't run amok among people beating them down with my views.
Someone, anyone, has yet to convince me that my view is out of whack. I just cannot see bringing more dogs/cats into a world because they like a parent dog and want to "keep that". It is selfish.
As for Elitist views at a shelter, never seen one yet. But I have in rescue and fosters.