Your Mom is right -- they were likely looking for easy money. You *were* lucky -- often if they don't find what they want they get ticked AND destroy. It could easily be a neighbor or someone's kid. Probably someone who knows you and knew you'd be a few minutes because you *have* done it before.
Not saying that to make you feel bad ... that feeling of violation is horrible. I'm sorry ... but then again ... USE IT to your benefit. don't let it make you scared -- let it make you smart.
About 16 years ago, back when downtown Orlando was pretty shoddy and nasty (the area where my lawfirm was had degenerated to drunks sleeping in the doorways and to get TO the door you had to step over them). I've never been 'agile' -- it used to worry me but my ex and I did a lot of work with the homeless and I really wasn't "afraid".
One day at 5 -- full light, in front of 100's of people -- I got out of my office and was heading for my car and a street person came up and asked me for a "light". I don't smoke and almost told him so, but for some reason he 'felt wrong' to me ... I can't say why but he truly gave me the creeps so I didn't say a word - I just keep looking straight ahead and kept walking. There was a group of young associate attorneys just ahead of me and I figured I'd try to catch up with them (fat chance Callie)
This guy just wouldn't leave me alone -- it ticked him because I wasn't talkative and he got nasty immediately and started screaming at me. No one did a thing and I just kept walking after that group. I was scared to death because my car was in a big city parking multi-level that is a nasty, dirty awful place and you wait FOREVER for an elevator. And I wasn't even then capable of hurrying up 8 flights of stairs.
I tried calling out to the group but they couldn't hear me (and this guy was making SUCH a scene, but of course no one would help me). Either it was luck or an angel but that group had to wait JUST long enough for that elevator for me to get there and I screamed "HOLD IT" just in time. Phew.
This guy stalked me for weeks. He was "there" in the morning when I got to the garage (and I had NO choice but to park there), and he was waiting for me at night. He never approached me but stood across the street and shadowed every move I made. I had to go to human resources and tell them, and they had to ultimately have him arrested.
This isn't someone 'breaking in' -- but they're similar in that it's about 2 women "alone" at the time and vulnerable. It's about violation of personal space. It's scarey as heck.
since that day LONG ago, I still don't *ever* park my car where I can't see the door of the driver's side from the elevator. Thankfully now I have a handicapped placard which makes it easier, but for many many years I didn't and I used to park on the TOP floor or go to work 90 minutes early JUST so I could get a space I felt safe with. I *still* do this. I've turned down jobs JUST because the parking was scarey.
This guy trashed your car once and probably knows you don't habitually keep money in your car (smart) -- however, he may be angry *because* he got nothing. The keys were worthless (good thing you didn't have them labeled with names or addresses) to HIM and that probably ticked him off. He knows you walk dogs tho, I bet, and it wouldn't be a far stretch for him to know where some of those people live.
I would definitely contact them. Re-assure them that you got the keys back, but that the police were less than helpful and apologize for not having the keys WITH you (not your fault but some folks could have been nasty about it). But let people know so if THEY feel scared they can change their locks. He probably didn't have time to make impressions UNLESS he was only after the keys, in which case he probably wouldn't have trashed the car and wouldn't have wanted to telegraph to you that you'd been violated.
But sometimes there is no "telling" -- but from here on, I bet you'll never leave your car open again. Safe town or not ... nothing's really safe any more. People are just "people" and some of them are going to disappoint us ...
Re-think what you do. Just let it make you cautious, not afraid.
About a year ago, my best friend's dog started to bark one night very late. She had left her car in the driveway (nasty snowy time of year) and she had lived in that house for 50+ years and had never locked her car. Windows were up, but door wasn't locked.
She went to look at what Teddy was so yanked about and there was someone IN her car. She poked her head out of the house and yelled and the guy ran. She called the police -- all that was missing was change, altho she WAS lucky because it wasn't unknown for her to leave her purse in the car.
The police said apparently there had been a rash of such things -- the guy WAS looking for change and money and in fact, caught the guy and didn't even arrest him (known drug user but the amounts of money missing were too small to get him any jail time). That sucks ... but again -- my friend has had to 'change' how she does things.
It's all just plain nasty -- yea people should do the right thing, but most don't.