rwbeagles
Posted : 4/28/2008 3:00:45 PM
don't do it! LOL. No seriously I only allow at most 3-4 friends to be invited...this time I did the same but being that she was on a Sunday and we live in the bible belt...none were able to come. She was bummed BUT more excited about bowling and her presents than worried about who was going to be there.
Birthday party culture seems dependant on your area and your school and how tight knit people are there. At her private montessori it seemed there was a 'do every weekend and EVERYONE got invited (I mean these people were nuts, one snooty family rented out an ENTIRE WATER PARK for Lily's class of 10 kids!). In her current school boys invite boys....girls girls and only certain people sometimes from different classes, get invited.
I have decided that birthdays are FAMILY days...and outside parties will be minimally involved as long as they need my supervision and direction. I'd rather drop some cash and take her and my son to an amusement park where we ALL can have fun...even if it's more $$....than spend 2 hours in my home or ChuckyCheeses with other people's kids.
LOL.