ron2
Posted : 4/19/2008 7:46:19 AM
There doesn't seem to be a way to answer this thread without the risk of offending someone.
Learned the hard way, dogs and small children should not be unsupervised, ever. Lori has a good point. With her dog's status of being a bit unpredictable, Lori's guard is never down, ever. Also, it is possible that the girl did something that she doesn't remember. It's also possible the dog was playing, mouthing even, as dogs might do with one another and the child, being a child, was too fragile for that kind of play.
In the end, it is the parent's liability. Is that unfair? Probably. Life is unfair, for humans and for dogs. I agree that the child should learn not to fear the dog or other dogs. I can also see where many rescues may not want to take the dog with a now official bite record. And, to be accurate and "fair," once a dog has bitten someone, never assume they will not bite another. But, to also be fair, don't assume a dog won't bite just because they haven't bitten, so far. Anything with fur and fangs can bite.
I can understand the pain that the family is going through, real and emotional. Personally, I don't think the dog needs to be euth'd. But that could happen, anyway. Life is unfair. When I was a kid, if one got bitten by or chased by a dog, usually the question asked was "what did you do?" Just as I was raised not to bother a dog wihle he is eating. So the temperment test of introducing a hand in the food bowl while the dog is eating has no connection to how I was raised. And rough interactions with dogs was part of the learning experience.
And to be fair to the family, the girl may have done this some times before and never a problem. Not being there, it's hard to discern the dog's intention, etc. All we have is the aftermath. And while, yes, the dog could live a long life with the right management, who is willing and able to do that? And what if the dog does it again or has an instability? What is the most humane thing to do?
I empathize with the family.