Beautiful but Sad

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    Beautiful but Sad

     

    This was posted on one of the resuces I donate to.  I give to some just once in a while, some fairly regular.  I get news letters from several golden retriever rescues I donate to and my heart just breaks at the pictures and stories of tossed out senior goldens (or any dog for that matter)  They are dumped for so many reasons--they can't play like they use to so the family wants a puppy instead.  They have old age health problems and the people don't have the time to mess with giving them daily meds.  They are moving to a new house and don't want dog hair all in it, etc, etc.  Some of the stories are unreal.  Here we do everything in our power to keep our beloved dogs for as many years as possible and others just toss theri dogs out like stale bread.  Even statle bread has it's uses (Ah, bread pudding)

     

    One by one they pass my cage, Too old, too worn, too broken, no way. Way past his prime he can't run and play, Then they shake their heads slowly and go on their way. A little old man, arthritic and sore, It seems I am not wanted anymore. I once had a home, I once had a bed, A place that was warm, and where I was fed. Now my muzzle is grey, and my eyes slowly fail, Who wants a dog so old and so frail? My family decided I didn't belong, I got in their way, my attitude was wrong. Whatever excuse they made in their head Can't justify how they left me for dead. Now I sit in this cage, where day after day, The younger dogs get adopted away. When I had almost come to the end of my rope, You saw my face and I finally had hope. You saw thru the grey, and the legs bent with age, And felt I still had life beyond the cage. You took me home, gave me food and a bed, And shared your own pillow with my poor tired head. We snuggle and play, and you talk to me low, You love me so dearly and want me to know. I may have lived most of my life with another, But you outshine them with a love so much stronger. I promise to return all the love I can give, To You, my dear person, as long as I live. I may be with you for a week or for years, We will share many smiles, you will no doubt shed tears. And when the time comes that God deems I must leave, I know you will cry and your heart will grieve. And when I arrive at the Bridge, all brand new, My thoughts and my heart will still be with you. And I will brag to all who will hear, Of the person who made my last days so dear. -Author Unknown

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    I am crying reading this beautiful poem.  It has brought back memories of our wonderful Goldie.  Goldie was brought into the shelter when I volunteered there.  When the shelter euthanized so many dogs.  It is much better now thanks to my mom's efforts and now the efforts of others but at the time things weren't promising for dogs brought in.

    Goldie came in, and old golden, unspayed and obviously having had many a puppy.  She had no hair on her entire hind end.  She didn't have a prayer.

    I took her out for a walk in the hopes of making her day better.  She was so happy, but walked obediently at my side looking up at me with those dreamy golden retriever eyes (from the book "Lost and Found" with "dreamy eyed forgiveness";) and a little smile on her face.  She was total love.  How could someone do this to her??????  I immediately went back to the shelter with her and called my mom.  I told her there was no way this dog was going to be adopted because of how she looked, her age and her condition.  My mom said bring her home and I did.

    Goldie lived her golden years on our farm, lying in the sun, playing with the other dogs, getting lots of love and giving nothing but love and joy in return.

    Many miss out on the joys of adopting an older dog - one that really needs you and knows it.  I still miss our Goldie.  She was such a good dog that she even spared us the grief of  having to make any decisions about ending her life - she died quietly in her sleep under her favorite tree.

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    Awww geeze.  Now you both have me crying.

    And knowing that despite not ever getting a meal without fur, not even a cup of coffee without fur, that we are doing the right thing, sharing our homeless exile into the RV with these furry loves.  How can people let them go?  How can they just give them up?  I've said many times that I'd live in a cardboard box before I'd give up my dogs......luckily for me the RV never sold and I don't have to go quite that far.

    I need to go hug my dogs.

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    I'm gunna go find my Maxers...and hug him too!

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    I so love the old ones -- I've always learned the most from them.  Every time I read this I cry - I just can't understand ... I truly just can NOT understand everyone's obsession with all things "puppy". 

     Puppy breath lasts about 2 minutes.  Wisdom is forever. 

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    It has been our intention for some time to adopted seniors when we are down to one dog.  We aren't spring chickens anymore and  it just seems right to adopted these old timers and give them a few happy months, or years.    When I read that poem to my hubby he sat here bgawling with me.  He is always saying that there will be many happy resuces if I ever win a lottery, etc because most of the money wuld be sprad around and I would have a sanctuary myself for unadoptable dogs.  With the lottery I could afford all the help I needed to run such a place.

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    In tears here...

    Being in this forum I have learned so much: we neutered Thor after reading all those stories about abandoned pups. I'm always thinking about his litter brothers and sisters... Who knows where they are now? Now I'm thinking about all those older dogs that spent their lives barely well and when they get old, what would happen to them? I'm sure I'll remember this always!

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    I love that, I have tears in my eyes.  The ladies in my office are going to wonder if my menopause is out of hand if I dont quit tearing up at the computer.Crying