KarissaKS
Posted : 4/11/2008 8:17:42 AM
I find it interesting that not a single person has bothered to answer your original question....
I'm a week and a half into a new two-dog lifestyle, so I figure I might have something to add to this conversation. :o) I brought Kaiser home last Tuesday and it has been an interesting week, to say the least!
Luke is generally dog-friendly, although he doesn't have many dog friends because I think he fancies himself a human. He's been an "only dog" for four years and I knew that there would be some jealousy issues to get past with the new puppy.
I did the introduction at my parent's house and let Luke sniff the crate before letting Kaiser out. Luke decided that he didn't really give a hoot about the little cat-like creature in the carrier and decided that he'd rather go around sniffing the yard.
I had to monitor their interactions together the first few days because Luke did not appreciate it when Kaiser used him as a launch pad or jumped at his face to play. Luke didn't do anything more than growl/snarl at him on occasion, but I needed to make sure that it didn't escalate beyond that -- plus, I needed to be able to reprimand Luke for that behavior and also try to prevent Kaiser from going overboard.
Luke was massively jealous and in a major funk for five or six days. In the last few days he's really been coming around and I think he might actually be starting to like Kaiser! He's learning how to play with Kaiser without scaring the snot out of him (Luke has always been fairly aggressive in his play style and has had to learn to tame it down) and he's learned to share his toys and not touch the puppy chewies (that was hard for him at first).
I've made sure to give Luke plenty of attention and love -- he gets the perk of sleeping on the bed with me while Kaiser sleeps in the crate. Luke also has his special time with me when we do agility and that means a lot to him. Overall we're doing very well.
We fell into a new routine very quickly. Basically our lives revolve around Kaiser's potty schedule, so all this means is that Luke now gets to go outside a lot more than he used to! We're also going for more walks than we did before, as you tend to get pretty spoiled with an older dog. Luke likes this change!
I'm going to have to start getting serious about Kaiser's training one of these days, at which point I will have to separate the two dogs more frequently. We may encounter a new level of jealousy at that point, but I think Luke will deal okay.
The change is rather big at first, but you fall into a routine rather quickly. I had big time jitters in the week prior to bringing Kaiser home because I didn't know if I was prepared to handle the puppy stage again, but everything has been going very well. I'm sure you will be fine, too!