Well I did it.....

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    Well I did it.....

    I ended my year and a half relationship tonight.

     

    Please help me stay strong, because I feel so weak right now. I feel like my whole word is collasping around me.

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    Oh poor thing,maybe it was meant to be. I'm sure someone will come along when you least expect it. Better than having to go thru a divorce----believe me ,no fun!    Try and keep busy or get together with your family and friends. And you know your dog always loves you, and you don't have to put up with anything!    Stay strong!!

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    Erica, I know how hard it is to end a long term relationship. 

    Stay strong, you can do this.

    (((Hugs)))

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    Absolutely !! Holler ANY time ... sometimes it takes more guts than anyone realizes to 'end' something that's just not the right thing.  But it can feel like stepping off into nothingness.  Billy sez if you can feel that softness under your hand that's HIM sending English cocker spanYELL nuzzles!!

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    Ugh, that must feel *awful*. ((Hugs)) to you.
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    Good for you for sticking up for what you want/need. This too shall pass. Stay strong! 

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    As aweful as it seems right now, it will get better.  Stay strong.  There are bigger and better things in your future!

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    I know it hurts now, but if you ended it you must have had good reasons.  When you feel yourself weakening, just remember what those reasons were.

    Joyce

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    {{{HUG}}} You'll be alright, and come through this better than ever.  We're here when you need us.

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    erica1989
    I feel like my whole word is collasping around me.

    You know we're all here with umbrellas to keep the bigger bits from hitting you Wink! You can be strong yes,...but you can also be vulnerable and feel what's happened..that's okay too. We're here if you need us!

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    It's always difficult, even when it's the right thing to do. It will get better though. Take good care of yourself and feel free to lean on all the shoulders here if you need to vent or cry.

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     I'm so sorry, I know how hard it is and can be. Be strong, go out with friends, and have fun! We are all here for you!

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    ((Erica))  You WILL get past this.  I'm proud of you for taking that big, scary step.  Like a lot of people have said, we are here for you.  Take care of you & spend some extra time with Casey.  It will be good for both of you.

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    Oh, we are definitely here for you!

    *sends your favorite tub of Ben & Jerries for you to share with Casey whilst lying in bed and watching Pride and Prejudice so you can cry it all out* 

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    As someone on another forum said, as long as you don't run out of batteries, you don't need a man.  I have no idea what that means but thought I would pass it on.  ;_