Woman Sat on Toilet for 2 Years!!!

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    Woman Sat on Toilet for 2 Years!!!

     

    Sheriff: Woman sat on toilet for 2 years By ROXANA HEGEMAN - Associated Press Writer Published 1:26 pm PDT Wednesday, March 12, 2008

    Authorities are considering charges in the bizarre case of a woman who sat on her boyfriend's toilet for two years - so long that her body was stuck to the seat by the time the boyfriend finally called police. Ness County Sheriff Bryan Whipple said it appeared the 35-year-old Ness City woman's skin had grown around the seat. She initially refused emergency medical services but was finally convinced by responders and her boyfriend that she needed to be checked out at a hospital. "We pried the toilet seat off with a pry bar and the seat went with her to the hospital," Whipple said. "The hospital removed it." Whipple said investigators planned to present their report Wednesday to the county attorney, who will determine whether any charges should be filed against the woman's 36-year-old boyfriend. "She was not glued. She was not tied. She was just physically stuck by her body," Whipple said. "It is hard to imagine. ... I still have a hard time imagining it myself." He told investigators he brought his girlfriend food and water, and asked her every day to come out of the bathroom. "And her reply would be, 'Maybe tomorrow,'" Whipple said. "According to him, she did not want to leave the bathroom." The boyfriend called police on Feb. 27 to report that "there was something wrong with his girlfriend," Whipple said, adding that he never explained why it took him two years to call. Police found the clothed woman sitting on the toilet, her sweat pants down to her mid-thigh. She was "somewhat disoriented," and her legs looked like they had atrophied, Whipple said. "She said that she didn't need any help, that she was OK and did not want to leave," he said. She was reported in fair condition at a hospital in Wichita, about 150 miles southeast of Ness City. Whipple said she has refused to cooperate with medical providers or law enforcement investigators. Authorities said they did not know if she was mentally or physically disabled. Police have declined to release the couple's names, but the house where authorities say the incident happened is listed in public records as the residence of Kory McFarren. No one answered his home phone number. The case has been the buzz of Ness City, said James Ellis, a neighbor. "I don't think anybody can make any sense out of it," he said. Ellis said he had known the woman since she was a child but that he had not seen her for at least six years. He said she had a tough childhood after her mother died at a young age and apparently was usually kept inside the house as she grew up. At one time the woman worked for a long-term care facility, he said, but he did not know what kind of work she did there. "It really doesn't surprise me," Ellis said. "What surprises me is somebody wasn't called in a bit earlier." --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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    2 YEARS!!!!!  I have a hard time sitting in my desk chair for an entire hour!  I wonder what would cause someone to do this?  As for the BF, I think I would have called someone after a few hours, not 700+days... 

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    huskymom

    2 YEARS!!!!!  I have a hard time sitting in my desk chair for an entire hour!  I wonder what would cause someone to do this?  As for the BF, I think I would have called someone after a few hours, not 700+days... 

    No kidding! I'm guessing they had another bathroom that the BF used. Even if I had the desire to sit there for that long, I'm 100% positive DH would not be that patient.

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    That is really, really scary. There's gotta be something more going on, here.... Yikes. 

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    This is the weirdest thing I have read all year Cathy...and you know me...that's saying something. I am just really weirded out after reading that...I might have to stop sitting to pee and figure something else out!

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    rwbeagles
    I might have to stop sitting to pee and figure something else out!

    Oh Gina...why would you give me an opening like that... Now I get to show you a really creepy product.

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    That story is..highly disturbing. I really don't understand.

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    rwbeagles

    This is the weirdest thing I have read all year Cathy...and you know me...that's saying something. I am just really weirded out after reading that...I might have to stop sitting to pee and figure something else out!

    When I read it, I thought "hmmm..usually Gina finds these stories" Stick out tongue

     

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    DH's response - man, talk about being constipated!

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    How did she sleep? I mean think about it, you would have to fall off at some point. Your legs would go to sleep and most likely rot off if you sat upright like that for two straight years.

     This is wierd and maybe she lived in the bathroom for 2 years but I find it hard to believe that she never once fell off of the tolilet.

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    dgriego

    How did she sleep? I mean think about it, you would have to fall off at some point. Your legs would go to sleep and most likely rot off if you sat upright like that for two straight years.

     This is wierd and maybe she lived in the bathroom for 2 years but I find it hard to believe that she never once fell off of the tolilet.

     

    I dunno, I had a bathroom in an apartment that I lived in once that was so tiny, there would have been no where to fall to.  Also my friend Lesley's toilet is situated between the wall and the end of the tub and many of my friends have caught cat naps on it while we've been partying there.  It really doesn't take long for legs to atrophy either so that eventually her legs would have just held her there, long before her but actually grew around the seat.  I just don't understand what would make someone want to do this.  

    And I don't care if you're the Queen of Sheba, I ain't bringin you no sammich while yur on the can! 

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    there's a bitmore out about it now...looks like she has some major atrophy and nerve damage to her legs so she was immobile for a very long time.

    The history of childhood beatings and isolation is also coming to light...very sad. Women raised like this tend to pick men that at best...won't help them heal and worst...perpetuate the abuse...I am thinking that was the case here.

    The way the BF described it sounded as tho it came on gradually but she would not leave the bathroom altho she'd change clothes and eat and bathe etc. But indeed...if the seat had grown in it'd been awhile since any activity....if it was escalating....she might have been STAYING in the bathroom for 2 years but only on the seat for say 6 months...etc.

    Strange and sad story

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    I can't shake the feeling that maybe the "supportive" BF had more than a passive role in keeping her in there... Gina, I think you're totally right.

    Poor, sick woman... were were her friends and family? Crying Let me always be at least sane enough to keep in touch with someone who would care enough to investigate if I disappeared... jeepers...

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    chelsea_b

    rwbeagles
    I might have to stop sitting to pee and figure something else out!

    Oh Gina...why would you give me an opening like that... Now I get to show you a really creepy product.

    http://www.travelmateinfo.com/page002.html

     

    That story is..highly disturbing. I really don't understand.

     

    That is a creepy product.  But, it probably beats a 16 ounce Papa Gino's cup, or a case of poison ivy.   Anyway, I am too weirded out by that story.  I can't even imagine it...  

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    I heard on the news that they were charging her BF with neglect.  Wouldn't you think that if he were running on all cylinders himself, it only would have taken a couple of days before he realized something was not quite right with this woman?

    Joyce

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    chelsea_b

    Now I get to show you a really creepy product.

    http://www.travelmateinfo.com/page002.html

     

    Owie!  NO!  I DON'T WANT THAT!!!!