Hello, new here and considering getting a dog

    • Gold Top Dog
    I saw your post about wanting a dog and then how one popped up in your life. I was reminded of this quote written by E.B. White:

    "A really companionable and indispensable dog is an accident of nature. You can't get it by breeding for it, and you can't buy it with money. It just happens along."

    Congratulations on R.C.!!

    --Sara
    • Gold Top Dog
    great quote...and so true.
    • Bronze
    We have friends who adore our dogs, but the wife is so highly allergic that she can have skin and breathing reactions from just contact with dog fur on somebody elses clothing.  That doesn't leave the husband a great many options, but they arrived at a solution.  They found a breed that they love, and joined the breed club as members.  They go to all the breed club events and schmooze with everyone else's dogs-kind of like godparents....They bring a change of clothing in the car, and if the wife is attending, she can take meds in advance for the event to prevent a serious problem.  You get to have your pet fix, enjoy their company and behavior, and not jeopardize your health in the process.  You might also consult with an allergist to find out if you are a candidate for desensitization therapy, once you have found a type of dog that you are really in love with.
    • Gold Top Dog
    There are "hypoallergenic dog breeds".  If your friends really love dogs that much they could look into that as well as seeking an allergist to see if it is the dog hair or the dog dander.
    • Gold Top Dog
    jazzdpb-
    I just found this forum and I can't tell you how happy I am that you and your wife found R.C.! What a wonderful edition to your home. I can tell that you and your wife are committed to making it work for this little guy and I hope things continue to go well. I really do believe that each dog should be looked at on a case by case basis to see what works best for that dog and the family (ie-crating, work schedule. . )
     From the pictures it looks like R.C. is very happy in his new life.
     
    Congrats and best of luck to both you and your wife!        

    • Gold Top Dog
    ORIGINAL: jjsmom06

    jazzdpb-
    I just found this forum and I can't tell you how happy I am that you and your wife found R.C.! What a wonderful edition to your home. I can tell that you and your wife are committed to making it work for this little guy and I hope things continue to go well. I really do believe that each dog should be looked at on a case by case basis to see what works best for that dog and the family (ie-crating, work schedule. . )
    From the pictures it looks like R.C. is very happy in his new life.

    Congrats and best of luck to both you and your wife!        



    thank you, sweetheart. he's slowly opening up to us and getting acclimated in his new loving environment.

    i can't understand how people could live with themselves after mistreating and/or abandoning such a sweet creature. hopefully they'll get what's coming to them. [:D]
    • Puppy
    As for the cat dander problem, you can wipe the dog down with baby wipes or just a damp towel to get any cat dander off. Unless the cat is sleeping on the dog, it shouldn't be much of a problem.

    Your idea that a dog should somehow be "greatful" to be with loving owners and not in a shelter is a bit naive. Most dogs are turned into shelters because they have some kind of problem. The majority of shelter dogs are adolecent dogs who were never properly trained or housetrained, or were banished to the back yard or a chain when they were no longer cute puppies. Most come with baggage and need quite a bit of training and at the very least, strict management.

    Most young dogs will get into trouble when left alone for long periods on a regular basis.

    I would also suggest a breed rescue where the dog has been fostered by a family who can give you a good idea about how the dog would fare in your household. Certainly a smaller dog would probably be a good choice as you can exercise them in the living room at night if you get home late. Also you can use potty pads or a litte box for a small dog so he won't have to hold it for 10-12 hr a day. (Having to do that long term can cause nasty UTI's.)

    The fact that you are asking question s is good. Just take your time to find the right dog, and the right dog will eventually find you!
    • Puppy
    OOPS, my last post was done before I got to the part about you finding RC.
    Congrats. I hope he was an angel while you were gone.
    I guess he did find you after all[:D]

    Good luck
    • Gold Top Dog