calliecritturs
Posted : 2/21/2008 7:36:22 PM
Ok, this is gonna sound like raving sexism but it is TRULY how I feel -- I am going to a woman not a man because when somebuddy shoves that sharp plastic thing where the sun never shines I want to know that THEY have experienced it and know what it feels like.
I have a tipped uterus, and I spent until I was 40 being mutilated every time I went (I would typically bleed for a day or two just after a pap) and at one time I had this endless list of doctors who chased me around and around because I had 'atypical cells' that they kept warning me "might be pre-cancerous" etc ... and it was THE WORST experience of my life. Altho I couldn't handle going to a man, I hadn't found a good woman doctor either to be honest.
FINALLY, simply took the recommendation of another doctor (an internist) and found a lady who is golden. I've gone to her for 13 years now and she's awesome.
Bottom line -- there's no magic. TALK to people, ask for recommendations and why.
I have no preference over the type of doctor -- altho I think Dr. Barry is good simply because she does specialize and she is very like-minded with me about natural aproaches when possible.
But I've been thru it all -- really severe menorrhagia durng the beginning of menopause and for about 6 years I had to have a biopsy done every year with my pap. Not fun ... so having someone I felt had my interests truly at heart was what got me thru.
I wish there was a magic answer for you but I truly think this one is personal. And if you find one right off the bat you're fortunate!!