calliecritturs
Posted : 2/14/2008 7:23:55 PM
A dog makes a HUGE difference between being left WITH someone and just being tied, left with someone they know, etc.
Practice this all over the place -- PetSmart is usually pretty darned nice about it -- TELL THEM "we're practicing for his CGC and I need help with the "stay with a stranger" thing.
The big deal is for you to act normal -- usually I train this literally as MY convenience. "I gotta go get Hootie's food -- you stay with this nice lady and I'll be right back!!" hand the leash to the employee you've chosen and look at Georgie and say "And YOU be good!! no barkin ok?? I'm gonna just go get that food and I'll be RIGHT back!" and then with your OWN sense of urgency just walk off like it was the most normal thing in the world.
If he pitches a fit you turn and act VERY disappointed. "Whoa -- what IS that?? This is Sue and she WORKS here -- YOU be good!" and then turn, walk at least 3 steps and then turn and say "THAT is better!!"
My theory (and remember I talk to my dogs ALL the time and truly expect quite a bit of 'understanding';) is that if they think they are getting DITCHED with someone else (particularly if they think I"m going somewhere better WITH another dog or another person and they are getting left -- whoa Nellie - Mom you ain't doing this!!) then it all falls apart.
But if they think this is just a short thing and that there is something "in it" for them to stay with this person (and you can't give rewards and the stranger really can't interact with them) but if they think this is just while you 'go get' something quick then it becomes a no-brainer.
When you leave give the dog the comfort of knowing YOU promise to be right back and that this is "no biggie". So not only do I ask permission of the person holding the leash, I also turn to the dog and say "ok -- I'll be right back -- be good!!"
I've seen some people try to do this silently and for ME that is so alien to how I work with my dogs it wouldn't work in a zillion years.
But MY dogs understand I would never ask someone to do this that *I* didn't trust. So I'm prone to saying something like "This is Bob who works here" or "This is just MIssy's Mom, so you be good for her!" along with my "be right back" thing.
And I'm sure my dogs know that if I'm, AS USUAL, running my mouther 99 miles an hour well then this IS no biggie and *yawn* she'll be right back.
For Muffin - my deaf one - I used to drop my purse and say "stay with my purse ok?" and man -- that was fine with him. During his CGC in total honesty he FELL ASLEEP during the 3 minute wait!! He knew my keys were in my purse and we ain't goin no where without those!!!"
Make it 'normal' -- and it will be no big deal.