calliecritturs
Posted : 2/13/2008 1:19:54 PM
folks ROMANCE is only there if you **make** it be there!! don't let it go stale -- it does NOT have to be money driven!
Make him a 'card' -- take some old magazines, newspapers, advertisements and look for "words" -- from descriptive words like "Fabulous" to stupid words like "To" and "Bankrupt" and "Super-sized"
Then glue them on plain old paper and make a funny "Valentine". You can make it like it's a stupid "ransom demand" or just string together stupid stuff and fill in the inbetween words with a felt tip pen. It takes time -- you can make it long or short, sweet, dirty or whatever ... but if he's the 'star' of it he'll love that you spent time doing it. Make a hole or two in the left hand margin and 'tie' it with ribbon.
David and I work at it ... all the time. And we work at HAVING FUN!!! I've got ratty old drapes (from when I bought my house and I never bothered to change them) but I'll spend money on a foolish toy for Davey.
Today AT WORK (the man knows how to get mileage out of flowers) I got roses AND they are being hugged by Froggie Prince Kiss-A-Lot (he sings "My Girl" and dances around).
IT IS A HOOT!!!!
Shoot folks -- buy penny valentines and date 31 of them with things like "Good for a Kiss" ... "Good for me rubbing your back" .... "Good for me laughing even when we both know it's not funny!!" ... dumb stuff.
later, when your ship comes in, you can graduate to roses and a singing frog (but remember my husband works about 16 hours a day and most of the time six days a week), but there were lots of times when a 'date' for us as a married couple was a box of doughnuts (the store kind) taken down to the neighborhood lake with a thermos of coffee and just sitting and holding hands. But it was time we PLANNED to spend together. (not bad for a couple of thrifty fifties!!)