sherrida
Posted : 4/19/2007 7:41:07 PM
I know you despise this woman (we all do) and you are hesitant to talk to her. But what is the worse thing that would happen if you just went over to her place and started up a conversation with her about, I don't know, the pet food recall,,,something. If you have an extra bag of dog treats you could go over there and say "oh i bought these and I already had some at the house" do you think your dog would like these? Maybe if you show her that you are an OK guy and take an interest in her dog, the possibilities are endless. It is never easy to have a civil conversation with someone that you don't care for but this is about her poor abused dog.
It is difficult to do the right thing but if you don't do it, who will???
Shortly after I married my DH, 4 years ago, his 19 year old son was living with us. He got a dog, without consulting my DH or myself. The puppy peed on the carpet and he proceeded to hit the dog and rub his nose in the carpet. We were not on the best of terms anyway and so I snapped and told him that was not the proper way to potty train a dog and he will not hit that dog ever again. We got into a huge arguement. He said it was his dog and he could do whatever he wanted to with it. (pride talking as two of his buddies were there) I told him not in this house you won't. I tried to be calm and sensible but I was shaking the whole time (he has a short fuse and I did not know what he was capable of). He never did apologize to me even after his friends told him to. Our relationship is even more strained now but he doesn't live with us and the dog has been re-homed.
I would do it again in a heartbeat...probably with a different delivery next time but I had to be the voice for that little dog.