Good thoughts please (Update, pg 7)

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    Good thoughts please (Update, pg 7)

    My dads not been well.  He's been to the hospital for tests and everything, he went to get his results today.  I was waiting for the call to see what it was.  A friend texted and said "I'm so sorry, my sister just told me the news, call if you need me".  What did she know that I didn't??????

    So I sat here and fretted for ages and gathered the courage to call the family member that would have told them the "news".  She wouldn't speak to me!  She said yes it was bad news but she didn't want to talk about it, she wasn;t very good at that sort of thing.  She told me who had told her and left it at that.

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    So then I had to decide whether I should fret and wait for news, or make another call.  I was in no hurry to hear bad news.  I knew dad was going to visit and I didn;t want to be shocked or in bits when he was here.  I wanted to find out and prepare myself.  So I made the call and got the news.

    Inoperable cancer, going to start chemo.

    Hit me with the happy vibes so I can be positive for my dad!   

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    Oh no, Chuffy.  I am so, so sorry.  Good thoughts for you and your family.   

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    First off, I am so sorry for the news.  Secondly, although you feel horrible right now, feeling horrible unfortunately won't change anything, and being positive and supportive of father will surely help him, even in the slightest, every bit helps.

    It is very difficult to go through that, I have been in a similar situation with my nona.  Be strong, and I will send as many good vibes as I can for you!

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    I am SO sorry *hugs*. I am sending positive thoughts your way. I know it is hard but be as positive and upbeat as possible. Remember miracles do happen. Enjoy your time with him. I have been there.  

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    Oh, Chuffy, I'm so sorry! Reading your post.... It's exactly what happened with my mom. If there's anything I can do, let me know. PM me, whatever. I will be sending you strength and good thoughts, It will probably seem like you're living "someone else's life" for a while. Hang in there...

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    Sending prayers to you and your family.
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    We went through the exact same thing with my father in law.....it is not easy but be strong and enjoy whatever time you do have together.  I am sending good vibes and hoping for the best. 

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     So sorry to hear, that and sending hugs and strength vibes for you and your family.

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    Oh Chuffy, I am so sorry.  Good thoughts and vibes for you!!

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    Sending good vibes your way and a whole lot of prayers!

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    Sorry that your having to deal with this. 

    Sending good thoughts & prayers to you & your family.

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     Poor Dad :( I'm sorry! Hopefully the chemo does its job.

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    I will definitely keep you and your dad and your family in my thoughts. Left HugRight Hug 

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    I'm so sorry. I will be praying for you!

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    I'm so sorry you and your family are having to deal with this. I'm sending "stay strong" vibes your way.