calliecritturs
Posted : 12/6/2007 9:00:53 PM
No one has mentioned this ... so I'm gonna mention it just so you keep it in the back of your mind.
We love to foster, BUT be cautious. It ***CAN*** affect your pack. Be sensitive to what's going on ... At one time I had an old guy and at first he was great. then he kind of fell in love with one long term foster we had and it was tough on Mike when we placed Tucker. After that Mike got really grumpy -- and I think he decided he just wasn't gonna get 'attached' any more! NO WAY.
And we actually stopped fostering while Mike lived simply because it wasn't worth upsetting him.
Also -- set some STRICT guidelines for yourself. One of mine is NEVER EVER **EVER** bring a dog into the house you haven't taken for a fecal FIRST. **YOU** do it. don't just 'trust' someone -- in fact, I lost Mike that way exactly.
We took a foster "on an emergency" basis during a hurricane. "Only for a few days til after the storm". yeah ... well not only was he the foster from h-e-double-toothpicks (what a ratty disposition that dog had -- he was THE most unpleasant dog I ever fostered) .. but gosh darn it, the gal told me he was 'clean' and he wasn't. He had hooks and whips and within 3 weeks Mike collapsed at my feet.
He was old and immune-compromised and those parasites just ripped him up ... the other two had them, but I lost Old Mike. It hit him fast and hard -- it was a hot summer and I thot he was just feeling the heat ... WRONG ...he was lethargic and anemic and I didn't see it fast enough. And I lost him.
So I'm only saying -- make a list of things you think are good 'rules and stick to them.
C'mon folks -- help her out. What rules do YOU have for foster?
Mine are:
1. Never let a foster in my house without a fecal first.
2. Fosters are pack OMEGAS. They eat last, get petted/greeted last, etc.
3. Fosters stay ON THE FLOOR. All the time. I never mind my animals on the furniture *but* some people don't like it. So I don't want a foster learning something at my house that is going to get him bounced from a forever home.
4. I try never to 'bond' with a foster. It makes it too hard on THEM to leave and it makes it hard on my pack as well. I keep an invisible barrier up -- like this is NOT your 'forever' home so YOU stay on the floor.
5. Always control the 'meeting' of your dogs and a new foster in whatever way YOU want to. Neutral place? Wait til someone can go with you to hold that extra leash? Whatever you think YOU need to be comfy, do it.
A group should be GLAD to have a new foster parent ... they oughta treat you well and cooperate with you. Don't let them bulldoze you into doing something you're not comfy with. "But I need him to come to your house TONIGHT -- these are nice people he's probably just fine -- you can get the fecal this weekend!"
NO. Whatever rules you make -- stick to them. You're doing them a service -- but the potential danger to your own pack can be great. So being picky is FINE.