so who all has the pleasure of suffering from this and what do you do to help ease the pain? I remember Callie mentioning peppermint oil? how much does that usually cost and how well does it work? am i going to smell like a candy cane after using it? (not something i'm fond of either)
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i wont be offended*
i'm only 25 and have had back problems since fifth grade... i THINK it all started when i fell of my sister's top bunk... bent my tail bone.. could NOT sit down without excruciating breath taking pain .. had to see a chiropractor for a while.. got better... then had a riding accident (was thrown into a tree, as in.. the trunk of the tree met with my shoulder thus stopping my forward motion) injured my shoulder but no real damage except for a while it hurt like the dickens to take deep breaths or walk up hill. that went away eventually only to have something else pop up.... on top of carrying about fifty pounds of books to and from school every day (yes i used them all, no we did not have lockers and no i did wear my backpack on one shoulder like all the cool kids.. i was a reclusive dork always reading) plus i worked on a horse ranch where i worked as hard as most of the men there, carrying fifty pounds of horse feed every day.. Then i had another couple of riding accidents... horse ran out from under me when i didnt except it.. landed on my rear in the middle of the road.. and a year after that was thrown and nearly broke my neck... none of that SEEMED like a big deal... everything healed and never bothered me unless i slept in on weekends. then i would wake up with a killer back ache that wouldnt go away until around noon..
Fast forward to about five years ago... went to another chiro for the back pains. just sitting at the computer or in my college class was horribly painful for my back and i couldnt stand it. So he adjusted my.. RIBS. yep, apparently they can move and will pop out of place which causes back and breathing pain. who knew? of course i couldnt follow his advice of no heavy lifting because if i wanted to keep my horse.. i HAD to work..
Fast forward some more.. all through my second pregnancy i was back to square one... driving was something i hated because it hurt so much. waking up was painful, everything was painful. but i was pregnant! But when i was in the delivery room getting the epidural the anesthesiologist told me my spine was curved to the left... aka scoliosis... which comes from carrying too much weight on one side - that would be from my first son.. carrying him on my left hip because i am right handed.. i guess? anyway he was mostly guessing because he was having a hard time getting the needle in... because my spine was not where it was supposed to be.
After the baby was born much of the pain went away.. it doesnt hurt so much to drive but i still have a constant minor ache.
So fast forward to tonight... my husband and i were goofing off, wrestling around with the kids and dogs - and DH is and always will be stronger than me... and rougher... without meaning to he managed to further hurt my back. feels like a pinched nerve really - and i dont plan on telling him because he'll feel bad about it -
So i'm sitting here dreading lying down because i know its gonna hurt more.. and i KNOW tomorrow morning is going to suck... i also feel like a bad mom because i avoid picking my kids up unless i absolutely have to. mostly i just go down to their level.. and its all because of my fricken 25 yr old back!
i dont normally complain about hurting... my horse ranch boss kinda trained me not to.. "Suck it up!" "what u complaining about??" "Yur not wimping out on me are ya?" ... and saying stuff like that to me is just a challenge.. stupid as it may be..
Also, my mom always complains about every little twinge and its rather annoying to me.. not that i'm not sympathetic to it.... but i have my own hurts... plus the one time i said to her that my back hurt too she thought i was trying to one-up her. she said "So what! yours doesnt hurt as bad as MINE does!!" ... 'scuse me? how would you know that? how COULD you know that?
i know i'm going to break down and go back to the chiro, i dont see many choices in the matter, but i'm still wondering about that scoliosis thing..... i knew a couple of kids in highschool with it. their backs were curved... i always thought they just had bad posture.. no, it was a real problem. I dont slouch, i stand up straight, and have great posture if i do say so myself.... but i have a feeling i've ruined my back good and proper for trying to keep up with a bunch of ranch workers - they all probably have back aches too... - but oh boy do i feel like a first class idiot, and i'm FEELING like one too right now!
i'm severely limited with pain killers too. I'm starting to ween Shane but he still nurses so i dont want to take a chance with pills..