Er, not good at goodbyes

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    Er, not good at goodbyes

    I don't usually hold with melodramatic internet goodbyes because usually they're rather attention seeking, but I just wanted to say cheers to everyone and thanks to all the people on this forum who provided me with fascinating and insightful discussions. Recent events have forced me to realise that I'm getting more grief than joy out of this forum these days, so I'm going to take a break. I'm not sure if I'll feel like coming back at some point or not. I hung around because I wanted to learn and be challenged and share my own challenging ideas, but I'm spending most of my time defending myself and my views and my ideas are either already accepted or already dismissed. Basically, I'm tired of the bickering and narrow-mindedness and feel disinclined to share anymore because I usually end up with my back up arguing with people that have no intention of listening to me. And I'm just as guilty because when I'm not defending ideas against people that have no intention of listening, I'm pushing arguments that people have no intention of considering.

    So it seems sensible to bow out. I know there are plenty of people here who do want to listen and discuss, but I feel like I don't have much more to offer those people, especially not when I don't want to share anymore lest I find myself feeling defensive. I really hate to be feeling defensive. Pretty much all intelligent discussion comes to a grinding halt when someone feels defensive.

    Erm, that's it, I guess. It was nice while it lasted.
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    Well, since the last good-bye thread and my opinions about people who say good bye and than after all the wish you weren't going posts they do not leave... I will say nothing but we will miss you and I wish you the best in whatever decision you decide to take after this thread is over.
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    Enjoy your time away. If you return then we'll be happy to see you...if you do not, you will be missed.
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    I hope you come back!
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    You take care. I've admired your relationship with Penny and learned a bit about Hares from you. If you feel like coming back, I'm sure you will be welcomed.
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    Melissa, I'm really sorry that you are feeling this way. But you can not let a forum upset you so.  I've had my fair share of arguments, you just move on. Forums are all about learning from each other, sharing experiences and debate. Everyone is not going to agree with you. But there are important things that you can pass on.
     
    I wish you the best.
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    I always thought that your posts were intelligent and thoughtful, whether I agreed with them or not.  Hope the break won't last too long.
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    I'm very sorry that you feel like this.  I hope that you will come back soon.  We'll be waiting...
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    i pm'd you. i hope this isn't goodbye for good.
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    Oh, no.  I'll certainly miss your posts corvus.  I always looked forward to hearing about Kit and your adventures.
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    Hope you stay!!
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    I hope you stay also. If not I hope you come back very soon.
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    I'm going to miss your accent (I always hear it when I'm reading your posts.)
     
    Maybe we'll see you around, again, sometime. If not, take care of yourself, either way.
     
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    I apologize if my sexual offender thread was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back.  I hope you have a great, dog-filled time, wherever life takes you!

    *edited for cat-walking-on-keyboard
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    I can certainly relate and sometimes feel weary myself and have taken mini-breaks from the board. I hope you'll come back. I always enjoyed our chats.