regarding Molly. I am at a total loss and it's breaking my heart
Her aggressiveness is getting worse and worse.
I just brought her home from the shelter's woofstock event. We were there 1/2 hour. Last year we stayed all day and she was fine. She just keeps getting worse and worse as time goes on.
I can't socialize her cause she goes ballistic - bikes, kids on skateboards, oh and the one that really embarrasses me is babies in stroller. It's so "comforting" to be walking a child in a stroller and have a dog going nuts.
I've done the behaviorist thing and the stuff he suggested (making her wait to go out when we let her, making her sit and only letting her eat when we tell her she can, etc.) is no problem....she'll sit by the open door forever and sit by a full dish forever (she's not very food motivated anyway).
I called my vet a couple of weeks ago nearly in tears cause I simply do not know what to do anymore. I called him looking for suggestions on medication and he mentioned Composure Liquid and it is helping with her in-house anxiety and OCD behaviors (she licks a pole in the basement). But it doesn't help outside the house. She does now eat 2 meals a day as the Composure Liquid is helping her relax enough she can let herself eat.
We can't take her hiking cause she acts like she is going to kill anyone we meet, we take her on old logging roads and if we meet up with other people walking it is so embarrassing due to how she reacts - it scares people.
Now I can't take her to these events I have always enjoyed.
She has to stay home and that just breaks my heart.
The first day we got here, when we were in the parking lot talking to Glenda's son Molly growled at a lady walking past us and I knew then we were in a bit of trouble with her.
She is starting obdience classes in a week but gut feeling is telling me they'll ask me to leave. She used to be great with other dogs and today she was lunging at every dog in sight (why we left the shelter event before they asked me to leave).
I think this dog would die for us...I really do but unfortunately that is not what I want in a dog!!!! And I don't know how to help her get over that, or if I can even help her get over this aggressiveness.
I won't give her away cause she has already bitten once and she is horrible with little kids. If I had grandkids I wouldn't even try to keep Molly around. I did tell my vet I'm thinking big E is this doesn't work (sorry Glenda).
I feel WRETCHED!!!! She will sit, stay, lay down, etc. on command - obedience isn't the problem. I can't even have company anymore. Anyone comes in and she has to be muzzled and quite often she will attempt to go after them even wearing the muzzle.
I'm spilling my guts here....I could resort to keeping her drugged but I don't want to do that to her. I don't want to give up walkign with her, don't want to leave her home all the time.