ashland
Posted : 1/4/2007 7:35:47 PM
Ash was given to me as a birthday present. I didn't ask for a puppy, but my ex got me one. I had no idea what I was getting myself into when I accepted her. I had never raised a puppy on my own. I worked full time with an hour commute each way. I lived in an apartment and Ash is herding dog! It took less than a week for me to realize that if I kept this dog, my entire life would have to change. My family and even the guy who gave her to me all, at some point, tried to tell me to give her up. I briefly considered it when I moved back to my parents for 2 months, but when I got the first call from an interested person, I was crying so hard I couldn't breathe. I honestly don't think I've ever cried like that in my life. The pain and agony I felt at the thought of not having Ash as so deep and intense that I knew she wasn't going anywhere.
My life did change dramatically and for the better. Unfortunately, not many people are willing to put in the time, the money, or are willing to change their lives for a dog. Although Ash was given to me as a present, I am one of the strongest advocates of NEVER EVER giving a puppy/dog/animal as a gift. You're making a lifetime decision for another person and the animal and in most cases, that person ends up deciding to give it away.