Ingrid
Posted : 12/31/2006 1:03:17 AM
ORIGINAL: mondayblues
I'm a first-time dog owner and I'm one of those people who are afraid of getting bitten if I try to take something out of my dog's mouth. I know I shouldn't have anything to be afraid of, especially since my dog is pretty timid, but I admit that the fear is still there. I don't want to be afraid of taking something out of my dog's mouth, though, especially since I will have to do it in case of an emergency. Have any of you ever felt like this? How did you get over it?
I've found that once you get bitten a few times, the fear starts to go away. Over time you'll learn how your dog behaves and what makes it tick, and most importantly, how hard it bites, lol. When Jake's having a temper tantrum, he can look pretty darn intimidating, and even I'll get a slight twinge in my chest (because HOW and WHY is my baby behaving like this?!). But I've learned that if Jake bites me, it never breaks the skin, and very rarely has he ever actually AIMED to bite me. Most of the time he's lunged at the brush I'm holding or the scissors (whatever he sees as scary) and since my hand will be moving, he'll accidently get my thumb instead. Only a couple times has he broken skin, first time was when he tried to bite the spray of water from the hose (his favorite summer game) and accidently overshot the mark and got my thumb. He got the tiniest of spots right behind the nail, but it still decided to bleed. The 2nd time was my own stupid mistake: I was brushing Jake's tail while he was chewing a bone (at the time, he was still wary of being groomed, and especially being touched while a precious bone was in his presence). In this case, his head was at the back of the crate, so when he lunged for the brush, he had to really twist around, so naturally he overshot his mark and got the back of my forearm instead. No blood, but it was bruised pretty nastily and looked pretty chewed up for the longest time. It happened quite some time ago, but I still have a small shiny scar that I can't find unless I tilt my arm in the light. And this happened THROUGH a SHIRT sleeve, lol.
But don't let me worry you, Jake's a naturally nervous, sensitive dog by nature. Just treat your dog the best you can and if he bites you, it won't be in hate or whatever. Chances are, he'll be like Jake, and will only bite to protect himself (from the brush, for example). But this is just one dog, he knows I'm Alpha and his caregiver, and that I don't want to hurt him (and that if he hurts ME, it's a doggy sin or something, lol), but he's still opinionated and feels that he needs to get his feelings across. So if he nips or "nibbles" (on my shirt sleeve to tell me to please let go of his collar because he's starting to get scared, for example), he won't bite hard, just firm enough so I can feel something. And if he bites hard enough to give a welt or a mark, it was an accident, my arm or hand or whatever just happened to get in the way.
Also watch your dog's body language. Dogs will give off a lot of warning signs, especially the more timid dogs. First thing that changes in Jake is he seems to get a little more tense and "aware." Next is staring, he'll do his intensive Border Collie stare (at me, at the brush, or at nothing in particular). His ears may or may not be layed back (not pinned, just layed back). Then his lips will start trembling just a little, and then a little more, and then a little more until you can start to see some teeth. He'll keep giving submissive gestures, like licking his lips, trying to roll over on his back, ears being back, etc. If I continue to ignore him at this point, then he'll keep adding more and more steps until he finally does lunge (at the brush or whatever, remember). The only time he doesn't give the above signs is when I'm clipping nails: he simply stiffens up when I have his foot in my hand and the clippers in the other, then he allows me to touch his nail with the clippers, and then he lunges at the clippers when the tip of his nail goes flying off. I still have to work with him on his issues with the nail clippers, but we're getting there. He'll let me clip 2 nails before he starts taking offense at the clippers, lol. But basically, if your dog is timid, I wouldn't worry. Just focus on teaching him that you're Alpha and that you come in peace (lol) and the only time you have to worry about biting is the freak accidents, like if you accidently step on his tail or something (and even then, he'd probably just yelp and try to bolt away, lol)
If you're still worried, though, you should read up on Calming Signals. There are some books sold on the subject and they're actually pretty informative. You find yourself watching your dog all day, trying to figure out what he's saying to you, to your family, to other dogs. It also helps you learn a little more about your dog, on what makes him tick and what he's most sensitive about, and the two of you can get along better.
Some of the more obvious Calming Signals, FYI, are licking, yawning (not the long-tongue type, if the dog's tongue doesn't fall past the front teeth, it's most likely a calming signal meant to calm either you or himself; I've noticed this the most from Jake), ground sniffing, and "attention span" (like averting eyes, and turning away)
Here's a link I'm reading right now, and it's pretty informative too
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http://www.diamondsintheruff.com/calmingsignals.html]http://www.diamondsintheruff.com/calmingsignals.html[/link]
Sorry this is so long, but I find dog language so fascinating, especially since humans can respond in the dog's language too.