What should we call each other?

    • Gold Top Dog
    I get confused with gender on these forums.
    I end up finding out that people I thought were women are really guys.

    I can usually remember names, but sometimes when I find out a person's gender, it BLOWS ME AWAY.

    DPU, no offense (just in case you take any), until this thread, I thought you were a woman.

    And I thought Twin was a boy for the longest time. That's why she uses pink font now.
    [:D]
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    Nice touch, Ron.
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    • Gold Top Dog
    My name is Tamara; I don't mind if you either call me that or my username. [:)]
    • Gold Top Dog
    DPU, no offense (just in case you take any), until this thread, I thought you were a woman.

     
    I thought the same thing Becca.  I also thought mondayblues and Ed were women too xD  And I thought sheprano was a dude.
    • Gold Top Dog
    ORIGINAL: cairnterriers

    Well, I've been thinking, should we call each other by our usernames or first names?  It is hard for me to remember both.

    I figure if a member wants you to call them by their first name they will provide it in their signature, otherwise their username.  Even then, sometimes I still use the username...as that is what I'm used to.  I prefer my username, or a portion of, etc.
    • Gold Top Dog
    Twin [:)]
     
    OR
     
    Rachel [:)]
     
    You decide...
    • Gold Top Dog
    Mallory.

    I don't know whether most people are males or females. I think on this forum I tend to assume female until otherwise stated. At others I'll assume male at first. I think I base it on the content of the forum.
    • Gold Top Dog
    ORIGINAL: chewbecca

    I get confused with gender on these forums.
    I end up finding out that people I thought were women are really guys.

     
    Me, too!  No offense to anyone.  Sorry DPU, I thought you were female!  And after awhile you don't want to ask "Are you a guy, or a girl?" because it makes you feel stupid. 
    • Gold Top Dog
    My "real" name is Erin
    • Gold Top Dog
    ORIGINAL: Xeph

    DPU, no offense (just in case you take any), until this thread, I thought you were a woman.


    I thought the same thing Becca. I also thought mondayblues and Ed were women too xD And I thought sheprano was a dude.


    Mondayblues isn't a woman???
    And, you know, I wonder if anyone has ever thought I was a boy on here.
    Some people don't make the connection of "chewbecca" and they simply think I misspelled "chewbacca".

    I think I assume more people are girls on here than boys, and I think it's because I can imagine more women sitting around chatting about their dogs as their babies, than I can imagine men doing that.
    I think one thing that also made me think Twin was a boy at first was BECAUSE she was always talking to Edie.

    Xeph, which "Ed" are you talking about?
    • Gold Top Dog
    I'm Haleigh...And I'm a girl, to avoid confusion if you haven't picked that up from my name yet. I had an old account I lost on here a while ago and most people thought I was guy....

    BUT IT'S STOPPED! WHOO[sm=dance.gif]
    • Gold Top Dog
    my name is Janet and you can call me that. or if you wish, you can type it out and use my username..
    i never had a problem with people using real names when i first cam to this forum. in fact i have problems remembering names, (and long usernames are even harder) so i remember most people from their avatar and signature pic.
    i really doubt that most people who are new to the forum have problems with people using real names. i think there are bigger problems in this forum (and i have encountered them quite often), which i won't get into in this thread [;)].
     
    ps: i have long given up trying to guess what gender people are. i remember them by their dogs [:D]
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    What throws me for a loop for a little bit is when people change signatures or avatars........... like when Ron changed his avatar, it took me a bit to remember who it was.  I look more at the dogs to figure out who it is, and then at the username after that.
    • Gold Top Dog
    like when Ron changed his avatar,

     
    I've had 3 different pics for avatars. So far, people have liked the recent one the most.
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