magilacudy
Posted : 10/13/2006 11:15:55 AM
That's incredibly judgmental. People have lives, and lives tend to, you know, change sometimes. Sometimes people have issues in their lives--like maybe they have to move to a smaller place and can't afford to keep their pet. Honestly, if I were in that situation, I'd rather give my dog away to someone whom I can judge as being a good home than give him a bad home with me if I can't afford to properly care for him. People may lose jobs, they may get a divorce--there are so many different parts of life that contribute to needing to "get rid of" your pet. There are a good number of people who need new homes for their animals and it's not because they just get bored or tired of the animal(s).
I can see why someone would rather give their dog to a place where they get to judge his new parents, rather than sell him to someone else or give him to a shelter where they don't get a say in where he goes.
Everyone has their own story, heartache, etc., so before generalizing about these people who are unreasonable and so horrible in your mind, please keep that in mind.
I don't find it judgmental at all. 9 out of 10 times people have stupid excuses for giving up their pet. Examples:
1) We no longer have time ----should of thought of that
2) Our child has alergies-----You couldn't have found that out before?
3) She has gotten too big for our home? --- should ahve picked the right breed.
If my husband lost his job we could not give away one of the kids, so why would I get rid of the dog? She cost less.
Moving to an appartment? Find one that allows animals. Many laws state it is against the law for a landlord to refuse pets.
No I would NEVER think it's okay to post a "free" pet give away. It gives somone who many not have the money to take the dog to the vet to get free dog. That is a very bad idea. Many times I see Free puppies, dog, kittens. For one, labs easily get their hands on these animals for testing. That is the kind of ad they look for.
For two, when it is free, it's quicker for people to jump on impulse to get it because it was free, then later they realize the big responsibility and how the pet was not so free and they get rid of it.
I can understand if the owner has passed away, and family needs to find a home because they can't take it. But I know for darn sure wether, it's a divorce, being poor, or having to move. I will find a way to keep my pets.