ladiebug
Posted : 10/6/2006 11:07:13 AM
Yeah, I'm not surprised your 14 year old isn't happy about the kitten. In my experience, the resident cat would just barely tolerate the newcomer. This was especially true if the resident was an older female, the males were a bit better (all were altered). If the resident was younger, especially under 5, they seemed to get along.
I'm not surprised Peanut is happy to see you, you are the one who's cared for her, she's bonding. And I know how easily I get attached, I want to take my pets with me to work all the time (they ehlp keep me sane). Just a warning, if you plan on finding

eanut another home, keep that in your mind so your heart doesn't break when the transfer day comes.
Considering her size, I too would be cautious to keep the dogs separate from her. They may just want to play, but get a little rough, and she'd be hurt. When you can supervise, it's a good idea to expose her to the dogs.
When she's alone in the bathroom, leave her lots of toys. My boys LOVE the little fake-fur mice I buy them at Petsmart (89cents each). Xebby had a thread in the Dog-Cycle about cat toys.
One last thing I thought of this morning, if you could start clipping her nails, at the very least start handling her paws, pushing the nails out, checking between the toes, etc. People don't think of this, but just like dogs, cats have to be conditioned to this. And the earlier you start, the easier it is! Also, check her eyes, ears, and under the tail regularly, just so she's used to it.