GINA??? BRENDA??? Gone?

    • Puppy
    Geesh!  Lighten up, if you do not like or agree with-someone IGNORE THEM!  
    Life is hard enough with-out getting stressed out over posts on a
    dog forum posting board. [sm=2cents.gif]

    [:@] [:(] [8|]  [:)]               
     
    P.S.  We still have the old icons too.------>  [sm=rofl.gif]
    • Puppy
    My feelings exactly Lauri ! [sm=wink2.gif]
    • Gold Top Dog
    I also agree. This board is fun and all, and we've made friends, and learn and share so many things, but come on, when it runs your life and puts you in a bad mood for the day. It's too much. It is, after all just a board. I also feel that those who continue to say "I'm leaving" are playing into the drama. GO ALREADY. we don't need the whole "poor me". I'm sorry maybe I seem cold, but I just don't think you should let this run you.
     
    I do not know any of you personally, we don't meet for tea on a sunday afternoon, although some of you I would love too. My point is, we are all people from different aspects of life, we are not always going to agree with each other. Cripes I argue with my own mother, difference is I can't put a "block" on her. LOL[:D]
     
    Lets just move on. Lets toast!! I've got a glass of O.J
     To  new Board, To new friends, To helpful advice, To Happy mail.  Cheers [;)]
    • Gold Top Dog
    Angel I have some vodka to add with your oj[sm=crazy.gif]
    • Silver
    I agree 100% Lauri. Great post.
    • Gold Top Dog
    On Oct. 16, 2003 I lost my 4 year old golden retriever, Hunter, to autoimmune hemolytic anemia and liver damage brought on by his Proheart6 injection.  I had never used a computer, but quickly learned so I could find information on Proheart6 and it's reactions.  As I typed in ProHeart6 warnings, a quote from this site came up and I came here.  I did not even know these forums, etc existed and I LOVED it.  Imagine a group of people all talking about their dogs and trying to help each other with problems!!!!  I had lost my dog  AIHA because of the PH6, so i knew I could talk about those two things as i had totally experineced them.  Also, Hunter's sister had had to have both knees operated on because of luxating patellas, so i could offer advice on that also.  There were various other things i could give advice or discuss--bone cancer (I had lost my 12 old irish Setter to it), allergic reactions to vax--we had almost lost KayCee to that, etc.  Being almost 60 and having had dogs all my life, I had gone thru various things with them.  HOWEVER there were a lot of things I had never experienced, had no knowlege of and could only offer best wishes.  BUT there was always someone here who knew about that particular problem and could offer correct advice.
     
    A few months ago a lady from England came to this board looking for  help.  her dog had AIHA and she was desperate for help.  Apparently her vet had not told her what could bring it on and she had no idea.  I told her about my Hunter and that things like oridnary vax could bring it on--and her dog had received vax shortely before the onset.  I told her of a couple of dogs I knew of that had survived and where to find their stories.  One thing i did not tell her was that 50% of the dogs die within a week of diagnosis and anotaher 30% within a month.  I saw no reason to discourage her as long as her dog was alive and there was hope.  I did tell her it is never cured, just goes into remission and they can have a relapse at any time.  some do live for many years before another relapse.  Maybe I was wrong for not telling her there was only a 20% chance her precious dog would make it thru the initial onset, but I just wanted her to have hope and to pass that hope onto her dog. 
     
    In my opinion, this is what this forum is all about--helping each other.  When i first joined there was one on who seemed to KNOW everything and he/she often put others down.  I ignored his/her posts after I figured that out. 
     
    There will always be disputes over feeding raw, store bought kibble, home cooked, high dollar food, middle of the road food, cheap food. But you don't tell someone who feeds their dog middle of the road food they don't love their dog because they do not feed raw or home cooked food.
     
    There will always be disputes over what supplements to give the dogs, which vax are really needed,  to titer or not, etc, etc.  But look at it this way.  If everyone thought just alike, we would all drive green Impalas, all live in pink brick house with white roof, have one pine tree and one oak in the front yard, have brown carpet, dark blue sofa and light blue recliner, wear black on Monday, brown on Tuesday, etc, go to the Baptist church, eat fried chicken on Sunday, stew on Monday, etc.  own a golden retriever and a doxie and a black & white cat. Wouldn't that be boring!  We have have to have different opinions, ideas, thoughts and we need to share them.  BUT we do not need to get nasty about it and expect everyone to think like we do.
    • Gold Top Dog
    I can honestly say i've never read any of this joel guys posts,wouldnt have a clue who the guy is,and i dont really give a crap either. If no-one responds to his posts he will eventually go away, i'm sure,they always do [:'(]

    How hard is it to NOT reply?????????????? Dont rise to the bait he so obviously sets for you all,or just block him,easy peasy.I've belong to sites that have the block function,if you know who youv'e blocked it's pretty easy to follow the thread.

    .And why on earth are you talking about him?? This just serves to give the subject a big head/ego and spurs him on.Being ignored is probably the worst thing you can do to someone,much better than engaging is useless dribble [;)]

    Emmas mom i really thing you have got way too much time on your hands [;)]
    • Gold Top Dog
    Sandra, good post!  !00% correct. 
    I too came here years ago for help for Ollie and his skin problems. We got help alright, and learned so many other things in the process, such as about supplements, good food, vaccine protocols and the very important information about the 6 month injectable heartworm shot that has been removed from the market because of its dangers.  I was so lucky to have come here at the right time. What a shame it would have been if all this garbage was going on then.  We had our share of trouble back then also,but nothing like this.  I can't figure out what it is that has changed so much.
    I'm with you Christine, I haven't seen much of what Joel has said at all. In fact it wasn't until a few weeks ago I ever heard of Joel and that was becasue he started writing on Jamies thread when she wrote to say she was not posting anymore. To be honest, back then I thought joel was Joel the moderator!!! Hows that?????   He doesn't post on the threads that I am interested in. And its true, we don't need to answer any of his posts if he is saying anything we don't want to hear or are not interested in.   Its just too bad that Brenda kept reading them, everything probably would have been just fine!
    • Gold Top Dog
    That is a great pic. You have got to hang on to that one. But don't all undertall dogs have Big Dog attitudes? lol
     
    Don't understand why we have to keep fighting like kids.