Deb
Posted : 8/31/2006 7:18:41 AM
Okay I have seen one of our furry kids be jeoulous, hold grudges, have favorites, get embarrased, and think about how things have been in the past. These are all characteristics of "self".
This is all actually evidence of your sense of self--this is theory of mind at work. You, human, looks at dog and assumes the looks on your dog's face mean the same things they would mean if they were on your face. This does not seem silly at all at first--it's empathy, it helps us make complex emotional decisions.
But I have a friend who owns a bassett hound, and yesterday he was telling me how everybody is always telling his dog to "cheer up" and wondering if he's sad. He's not sad, he has a droopy face. He is obviously happy, his eyes are bright, his tail wags, he scampers. It's silly the way people always assume that Monster's long face is equal to their long face.
Similarly, grudges and jealousy, for exampe, require cognitive skills that dogs don't have, thank god. They live in the moment and want stuff--they are simpler than we are, and that's why I like them. I like living with dogs because they don't hold grudges or get embarassed. It's not enlightenment (dogs know more about desire than I think humans do), but it's a simplicity that I admire.