Hi, I'm new here but it looks like I've come to the right place for answers! We have an unidentified rescue dog, she's been with us for several years, she's about 7, we think. We always fed her at night, she slept in the basement and we had very few accidents (she came to us housetrained). Since the winter she has been sleeping in the den, with an occasional accident. We tried changing her feeding to morning, so she wouldn't need to go at night, but she went about three days without eating and I felt bad and caved in. She has this odd habit where she won't eat if anyone is around, but the minute we leave the area, she chows down.
Anyway, to the problem. She has recently discovered that if she needs to go out during the night, she can come upstairs to our bedroom door and jingle her tags. One of us (me!) will wake up and let her out. Accidents prevented, but I'm losing a lot of sleep!! I want to change her feeding to morning, but I don't know how to go about getting her to change. Put it down for her, leave it a short time and take it up? Let her go hungry for as long as it takes? I feel so guilty doing that.
She goes to work with my husband every day, so she has about a two-hour window in the morning, then she doesn't have another chance at her food bowl till they get home in the evening.
Any suggestions would be welcome!!