Sera_J
Posted : 8/17/2006 3:36:55 PM
I know exactly how you feel. 2 weeks ago I found a terrific home for my foster. It was SOOOo hard! I cried like a baby and I still miss him.. but it was the best possible situation for him. They've called and told me how much they love him and what a difference he's made in their other dog. It does help.
But what really helped me is seeing him in his new home. Contact your Adopter to see if you can do a home visit 1-2 weeks after they've had the dog (maybe make this a rule for your future fosters?) when you see them in their home, happy and doing well.... it all clicks, well for me anyway. I immediately felt 100% better and while I still miss him I don't have that weird, unsettled feeling. It gives me a mental image of how he's doing and how happy he is. Follow-up has been key. Hearing how he's doing, settling in, funny stories... makes it SO much easier.
You know you did a wonderful thing, but it takes awhile for your heart to catch up with your brain. It's such a difficult job as the unsung hero, fostering animals (kids, too!) You did the best thing possible for him, as Annie quoted to me "If you love something, let it go." (thanks Annie!) cheesey, but true.
Big hugs to you for your wonderful, wonderful way of helping animals.