Men and Women ARE NOT EQUAL

ORIGINAL: Firestorm

ORIGINAL: Firestorm

Probe, what if the 13 year old boy was your son and became a father from his sexual experience....what would your thoughts be then? Or what if the boy ended up with aids or some other sexually transmitted disease?

The questions above, Probe --TIA

 
Oh, I thought those were rhetorical questions.  []
 
That would throw me on a major bummer.

Probe you would just be bummed?  Come on no real reaction to that?  Would you go to the teacher and say thanks for giving my son the experience and making him a dad and giving him aids? Or would you be upset with the teacher preying upon him?

You seem to be looking for an answer that I am not giving.  Rather than keep me guessing, why don't we just cut to the chase and you tell me what it is?
 
Have I done something to irritate you?

Billy, you're gonna get a bulldog soon.  I can feel it........

LOL , no but I just wonder why you won't answer, I am just trying to figure out where you REALLY stand on this topic.  I think you just posted this to get a rise and like sitting on the fence and adding a bit of fuel to people's fire.  You would make a hell of a politician.

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LOL, Sooner!  I think Billy should run for political office if he isn't already one.  He has the whole politician thing down,  how to evade questions, sitting on the fence and feeding the sheep on both sides and so on! 
 
Billy for President![8D]

I don't now if I could vote forhim. A true politician could come up with a better euphemism for being intimate with a woman than the phrase "service her." It sounds like something you have done at a garage.

Time for another male perspective, since they lack on this subject. Reactions would go something like this.
 
Son. Good on you boy.
Teacher. Burn in hell. Lock her up never to return, just like males SHOULD be.
 
To Firestorm, I would be devastated, but before my son was 13 he would have already have been taught that actions do have consequences, and sometimes they are very grave indeed. Now all you can do is support through him it.

Good point Ron the whole service thing.
 
Romal I like your final points Romal quote" I would be devastated, but before my son was 13 he would have already have been taught that actions do have consequences, and sometimes they are very grave indeed. Now all you can do is support through him it. "

It's crazy to think they will not have sex until they are 20. It's going to happen.

*coughchokedie*

I guess I'm the exception.... If I chose to have children, I will expect them not to have sex until they're married. I expect the same of my dogs[]

I have two boys (both teenagers0 and I expect them to wait awhile, like DH and I did.  No, we weren't married, but we were in a committed relationship before anything happened. However, I am also realistic.  Within the next few months, I plan to have a box of condoms in the medicine cabinet at all times. Right now, my boys are NOT sexually active (I am not sure they even know girls exist!), but I expect that to change very shortly.

As for the teachers, it doens't matter what sex they are, they shoudl get the same punishment.  As for the children, they shoul dbe cared for and not given an "attaboy" if they are male or called sluts if theya re female.

For the record, if one of my DSs DO slips and gets a girl pregnant, and she chooses to keep the baby, he will be paying "child support" of a sort to the mother.  He WILL get a part time job and be giving her some of his cash.I know he won't be able to pay as much as an adult, but even $100.00 will help a struggling parent. Of course, I hope this is all hypothetical.

Right on, for everything you stated, Lori. That's the way I was raised.

Forgive me for going a little OT here but in college on of my friend's boyfriend was telling me how his mother took all 3 of her sons into the kitchen when the oldest hit high school.  She proceeded to take a meat cleaver and slam in down on the cutting board while telling them - 'If you EVER get a girl pregnant before marriage IT COMES OFF!".   Andy confessed he didn't think he would even be able to 'fulfill his duties' on his wedding night!  LOL    
 
I thought if I ever had a boy I would follow in her footsteps!  Still trying to think up the equivalent for my DD.   

ORIGINAL: Firestorm

LOL , no but I just wonder why you won't answer,

 
I did.  I said I would be bummed.  []