jeano
Posted : 8/3/2006 2:13:19 PM
Fairbanks is a small town (though the second largest in Alaska--after Los Anchorage "it's such a nice city and so CLOSE to Alaska!" [

])--of about 35,000, a college town. I don't live IN Fairbanks, I'm like the other 50,000 in the area, who live out in the woods up to 60 miles away. The Fairbanks North Star Borough (we don't have counties) has about 80,000 people but spread way the heck all over the place.
Fairbanks is an island--instead of water we are surrounded by wilderness. Most places in Alaska are either water islands or wilderness islands. The small town mentality rules everywhere except Anchorage.
You have to make it happen for yourself in a small place. But not right away. First, meet all your neighbors and get to hobnobbing and such. Walk around and talk to people. If you are the churchgoing type that's a good place to start. If not, just being out there walking your dog is a good way to meet people. Also, the local coffee shop and grocery store, feed store, grange, post office and such places are good for starting a conversation.
Get to know people first, beat around the bush, don't be in a hurry to do anything. Be friendly, but realize that in most small towns newcomers from cities are often too direct and seem pushy.
If you are on a military base it might be a lot easier to start there with the other families and get something organized as to dog playdates and such. Also, if they know you are military they'll know you aren't staying, and that might be a barrier to getting close to folks.
Good luck!