Xerxes
Posted : 5/24/2007 5:39:30 PM
Here's a little more detailed post that I said I would make.
Stella and I had a discussion that turned into an argument that turned into a fight that got really vicious. She told me, was given to an old friend of hers that was having marital problems. I found out through her mother, because her mother let it slip, that this old friend is really her former BF, David. Stella didn't know that I knew this-until our big fight, in which anything and everything that could have been said or brought up was said..
Anyways she turned the whole thing back on me telling me that I don't spend enough time with her, things aren't the same as they were, we don't have any more adventure in our lives, I spend too much time with the dog, my heart isn't in this marriage and that it's all my fault.
And the kicker is that I don't make enough money so she has to work, and that's just not fair- her mother never worked and their family was pretty well off.
And don't get me started on the MIL. She's been against me since the start. The only way I got into her graces at all was the whole cellphone family plan thing. That way she didn't have to spend any of her money.
We haven't spoken for a few days- she's staying with a friend and won't answer the phone. Strangely though I don't feel hurt, I feel angry and used. I'm thinking that a clean break might be the best thing for both of us.
So thanks for all the kind words and support here. I'll keep everyone posted if anything new happens.